Ok so I met this guy. We completely hit it off. We have had 5 dates in 9 days. He was telling me how gorgeous, interesting, fun and smart I am. I thought the same. Obviously we have tons of chemistry since we've had so many dates. Then he got caught in a lie...he told me his engagement ended months ago, when really it was like 3-4 weeks ago. But he said it was practically over 4 mo. ago because she cheated. So he got caught. I forgave him, but now he called me clingy! Since he was the one inviting ME on so many dates I didn't think calling him once a day and text messaging occasionally was horrible. He said he needs time ( and I understand that) and can't make any committments. I never even asked for a committment! I just like hanging out with me and want to see what happens. I have put 0 pressure on the future of our relationship. Help me to not be 'clingy', even though I don't think I am. What should I do?Dating Advice?
It sounds to me like you are doing nothing wrong. I think he needs time to get over what has happened- I imagine it wouldn't be easy to move on from an engagement so soon. It sounds like now that he has been caught lying he is being defensive and accusing you of imaginary problems. I think if you really like this guy then give him some space and stick around a bit, but the most important thing is that you are happy, and it might be better to leave now then later- it wouldn't hurt for you to see other people if he can't make up his mind- it's not like you are both commited to each other.
Good luck and I am sure you will be fine either way because you sound like you are still a happy person with decent expectation.Dating Advice?
WoW five dates in nine days. Thats hardly enough time to get serious about anyone. Just try being his friend not his girl friend. Obviously he's hurting from his prior relationship if he was serious about marrying her and she cheated. I'm sure that put a damper on being real serious about someone else so quickly. Try to understand his state of mind right now verses letting yourself get serious about him. Don't let your feelings and emotions get so rapped up. I think your both going into the relationship with different motives. Sounds like you would like more than just a friendship and hes just looking for a friend.
Advice: have a platonic relationship untill you really get to know one another. What's the rush? Too many people rush into relationships, become sexually involved only to find out that had they just gotten to know the person long enough they could have determined that he or shes not the one with out having sex. Be smart. don't let your emotions rule you choices nor decisions.
ignore him for a while he will come running back
Play hard to get. Pretend you couldn't care less if you never hear from him again. Don't call him or text him. I bet he's thrown for quite a loop and comes knocking pretty quickly.
Give him his space. If it was meant to be it will happen.
your not clingy...he's insecure...
Back off a little. Take a break from him. You are not going to change his mind about the definition of 'clingy' or whether he 'should' feel that way or not, so whether or not you think you were doesn't really matter here. The other person's perception is just as valid as your own when your are talk about relationship dynamics. It takes both people to make it work. He seams to want a little less attention from you, this is not a good sign for a relationship. If you still want to have something with him, then you need to respect that. Give him the time and then see where you are.
Of course, the extra time away from him should also give you the chance to think about whether or not you really want to be around someone that does not want you as much as you want them.
you're not being clingy....he's messed up, he lied from the beginning....MOVE ON!
let him have his freedom for a while. of course, dont let him run off with ';others'; just take a step back and start again a little slower! :)
Don't use words like '; the future of our relationship'; around him.
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Dating advice?
Well here's the scoop. My freind tried to ask out a girl last year, he got nervous and said ';My friend invited me to a group date , but i don't have a date, do you wanna come?'; She said yes not knowing it was a date, just a friend get-together (cause they were close friends) He later came up to me and explained his situation and me being the good friend I am I went with him, but there was a drawback... I had no date.
I told him that and he flipped, so I grew the man-stones to tell her I didn't have a date, she just recently dumped me. So she had a friend who was looking for a BF, so I bit the bullet and said why not.
3 days passed and time came around, I put on my best DIY suit 'n slacks (yes i am a thread head, go to threadbanger.com 4 details) and met 'em at the theatre. What I saw almost made me cry... An EXTREMELY hot emo-chick, brown hair with auburn highlights, ripped-to-shred jeans and nicest body. Little did I know it was a setup. she liked me. cont. later on YahooAnsw.Dating advice?
i dont get it?
I told him that and he flipped, so I grew the man-stones to tell her I didn't have a date, she just recently dumped me. So she had a friend who was looking for a BF, so I bit the bullet and said why not.
3 days passed and time came around, I put on my best DIY suit 'n slacks (yes i am a thread head, go to threadbanger.com 4 details) and met 'em at the theatre. What I saw almost made me cry... An EXTREMELY hot emo-chick, brown hair with auburn highlights, ripped-to-shred jeans and nicest body. Little did I know it was a setup. she liked me. cont. later on YahooAnsw.Dating advice?
i dont get it?
Dating advice part 2. (please read my first question)?
My last question left out some details, so here they are. This girl that I have hooked up with supports her boyfriend, he doesn't work. She already knows how I feel about her for the most part and has made it very clear to me that her feelings are similar. However, she is scared to leave because it is all she has known for so long, and she doesn't want to hurt him. Although he treats her horrible, she still does care some. Most of the last answers I got were to just tell her how I feel, but since she already knows that, should I just wait for it to play out on its own? Should I just tell her EXACTLY how I feel and how I believe she deserves to be treated better than she currently is? I think the guilt of her hooking up with me may be pushing her away, and although I don't think that either of us did anything wrong, I can understand why she may feel guilt. I would really like to see things work out with this girl, but I just don't know how to play my cards right in this case.Dating advice part 2. (please read my first question)?
try telling her how u exactly feel and move on from there... if the boyfriend treats her badly tell her she doesnt diserve that and that u can treat her well and support her. if she is just afraid of breaking up with him then keep (if any) threats from him (notes, phone calls, texts, etc.) and she can get a restraining order...
best of luck
try telling her how u exactly feel and move on from there... if the boyfriend treats her badly tell her she doesnt diserve that and that u can treat her well and support her. if she is just afraid of breaking up with him then keep (if any) threats from him (notes, phone calls, texts, etc.) and she can get a restraining order...
best of luck
Dating advice girls :)?
So I just got to college this first week I hungout with this girl everyday and she has a bf is she just using me for a friend or does it mean theres more there i know i didnt give many details but i just want to know if you would hangout with a guy u wuldnt hook up cus in a guys mind if you chill with a girl for a week u wuld probaly hookup / wana dateDating advice girls :)?
are ye takin the piss out of willy the tranny scotsman?
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It's been a week! She has a boyfriend! It's called being friends, not everyone jumps into things like you do apparantly.
ya if you hang out with that girl all the time, i think she would eventually like start to like you
Girls can be JUST friends with a guy.
Answer mine please:
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are ye takin the piss out of willy the tranny scotsman?
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It's been a week! She has a boyfriend! It's called being friends, not everyone jumps into things like you do apparantly.
ya if you hang out with that girl all the time, i think she would eventually like start to like you
Girls can be JUST friends with a guy.
Answer mine please:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Dating advice?
im 14 and my girlfriend just left the state on vacation she left yesterday and is getting there today she told me to call her a half hour after she is suposed to get there wat am i supose to say wen she answeres%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; then should i call her every day or should i call her every other day or wat %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; then when she gets bac should i ask her out that first day or wate a few days or till she asks meDating advice?
she's your girlfriend. call her whenever you feel like you want to talk to her or see her. she can call you too, you know.Dating advice?
LISTEN TO YOUR HEART YOUR YOUNG STILL LET HER KNOW YOUR THINKING OF HER AND LIVE YOUR LIFE PLAN DREAM YOUR YOUNG ONCE
that is not a question. we do not pay the telephone bill. I feel bad for your parents.eye makeup
she's your girlfriend. call her whenever you feel like you want to talk to her or see her. she can call you too, you know.Dating advice?
LISTEN TO YOUR HEART YOUR YOUNG STILL LET HER KNOW YOUR THINKING OF HER AND LIVE YOUR LIFE PLAN DREAM YOUR YOUNG ONCE
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that is not a question. we do not pay the telephone bill. I feel bad for your parents.
SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
i have been divorced from my abusive and irresponsible ex-husband for 8 months now and have adjusted to being the only provider and parent of my two great girls. i have graduated college and started my new career, decorated my new apartment and had a wonderful makeover. i'm doing well, except...
i am now ready to date again. i have no clue as to how to go about meeting men to date, or telling men gently that i have two children that mean the world to me. i don't want to date a man who has children, just a personal preference i have. is it worth looking for a decent guy who is willing to date a single mom? or will i be wasting my time? any advice to give me?SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
am so proud of you for being strong, and a great role model!
You have made wonderful choices.
You are going to HATE my answer, but it's given from one single mom to another who's been there (and still am!).
WAIT!
Wait until your beautiful girls are out of school, raised and 18 years old.
They have been through a horrible ordeal with the abuse and divorce, and don't need to deal with moms romantic life.
Your girls will feel more important to you if you wait, because your attention won't be divided.
They won't have to deal with drama from the boyfriends.
There will be no chance of them (GOD forbid) being molested by a man whom you trust... and I have seen it personally too many times!
They won't get attached to another man, only to see him move on when it doesn't work out.
I beg of you to at least consider my advice.
I have been there and my daughter has been very negatively affected by my bad choices.
Just wait a few more years until they are grown.
Focus on being the wonderful MOMMY that you have showed yourself to be so far...
Don't let a man come in and possibly ruin the good work you have done.
I know it's lonely, and it's nice to have some female friends you can count on... but it's worth it!
Good luck to you and your girls!SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
Ya one advice DON'T do the whole bar thing!
ask your girlfriends if they know someone they think will be a good match for you.
well of course it's worth looking honey...it's just a matter of where you're gonna look.....stay away from the whole barscene, who wants some drunken schmukk for the long haul? Try volunteering at your daughter's school, or anywhere for that matter, get involved with your church and if you aren't religious then just pick something....you'll find you're going to attract more men the more confident you are, so it sounds like you're off to an excellent start! Just make sure you know exactly what you want this time and do not cave in to loneliness.....that guy is out there who is going to love your precious girls just like they were his very own!
And congrats on doing so well....I too am a single mom of two very young children...haven't even picked out a new career to go with but your story has totally encouraged me! thank you!
A decent guy for you is out there.
Check out grocery stores, department stores, bookstores, etc.
hmmmmm, so you are a woman with kids but you don't want to date any guys with kids? how hypocritical that is
sorry, but i refuse to help someone like that
CREATE A MYSPACE....I WAS NOT EVEN LOOKING TO DATE AND I HAVE FOUR KIDS AND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS HAS NONE OF HIS OWN AND WE ARE HAPPILY EVER AFTER...
Mans side. Me and a bit of my friends (married now) when we were single had no problem dating women that have children. When you are a little older and single that is just how a bit of the women are. Just don't shove the lovely children at us. We understand they are your world and come first. Even nice to meet and see them if they are nice. What ever your hobbies are and you do for fun is where you met guys and ask or get asked out. It does not hurt to ask a guy if he would like to get a coffee (drink of what ever kind) or lunch sometime. Good luck it is not as bad as most women fret.
I had that same problem too. I didn't have any luck with meeting anyone! So I decided to try Yahoo Personals. I know, it's kinda weird, but guess what? I found my husband there. Just be careful, they do have strange people there too.
You seem to still have one issue unresolved. If you want a man who is willing to accept that you have two children. Why is it you refuse to date a man who may have children?
i am now ready to date again. i have no clue as to how to go about meeting men to date, or telling men gently that i have two children that mean the world to me. i don't want to date a man who has children, just a personal preference i have. is it worth looking for a decent guy who is willing to date a single mom? or will i be wasting my time? any advice to give me?SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
am so proud of you for being strong, and a great role model!
You have made wonderful choices.
You are going to HATE my answer, but it's given from one single mom to another who's been there (and still am!).
WAIT!
Wait until your beautiful girls are out of school, raised and 18 years old.
They have been through a horrible ordeal with the abuse and divorce, and don't need to deal with moms romantic life.
Your girls will feel more important to you if you wait, because your attention won't be divided.
They won't have to deal with drama from the boyfriends.
There will be no chance of them (GOD forbid) being molested by a man whom you trust... and I have seen it personally too many times!
They won't get attached to another man, only to see him move on when it doesn't work out.
I beg of you to at least consider my advice.
I have been there and my daughter has been very negatively affected by my bad choices.
Just wait a few more years until they are grown.
Focus on being the wonderful MOMMY that you have showed yourself to be so far...
Don't let a man come in and possibly ruin the good work you have done.
I know it's lonely, and it's nice to have some female friends you can count on... but it's worth it!
Good luck to you and your girls!SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
Ya one advice DON'T do the whole bar thing!
ask your girlfriends if they know someone they think will be a good match for you.
well of course it's worth looking honey...it's just a matter of where you're gonna look.....stay away from the whole barscene, who wants some drunken schmukk for the long haul? Try volunteering at your daughter's school, or anywhere for that matter, get involved with your church and if you aren't religious then just pick something....you'll find you're going to attract more men the more confident you are, so it sounds like you're off to an excellent start! Just make sure you know exactly what you want this time and do not cave in to loneliness.....that guy is out there who is going to love your precious girls just like they were his very own!
And congrats on doing so well....I too am a single mom of two very young children...haven't even picked out a new career to go with but your story has totally encouraged me! thank you!
A decent guy for you is out there.
Check out grocery stores, department stores, bookstores, etc.
hmmmmm, so you are a woman with kids but you don't want to date any guys with kids? how hypocritical that is
sorry, but i refuse to help someone like that
CREATE A MYSPACE....I WAS NOT EVEN LOOKING TO DATE AND I HAVE FOUR KIDS AND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS HAS NONE OF HIS OWN AND WE ARE HAPPILY EVER AFTER...
Mans side. Me and a bit of my friends (married now) when we were single had no problem dating women that have children. When you are a little older and single that is just how a bit of the women are. Just don't shove the lovely children at us. We understand they are your world and come first. Even nice to meet and see them if they are nice. What ever your hobbies are and you do for fun is where you met guys and ask or get asked out. It does not hurt to ask a guy if he would like to get a coffee (drink of what ever kind) or lunch sometime. Good luck it is not as bad as most women fret.
I had that same problem too. I didn't have any luck with meeting anyone! So I decided to try Yahoo Personals. I know, it's kinda weird, but guess what? I found my husband there. Just be careful, they do have strange people there too.
You seem to still have one issue unresolved. If you want a man who is willing to accept that you have two children. Why is it you refuse to date a man who may have children?
Dating Advice?
Ok so I met this guy. We completely hit it off. We have had 5 dates in 9 days. He was telling me how gorgeous, interesting, fun and smart I am. I thought the same. Obviously we have tons of chemistry since we've had so many dates. Then he got caught in a lie...he told me his engagement ended months ago, when really it was like 3-4 weeks ago. But he said it was practically over 4 mo. ago because she cheated. So he got caught. I forgave him, but now he called me clingy! Since he was the one inviting ME on so many dates I didn't think calling him once a day and text messaging occasionally was horrible. He said he needs time ( and I understand that) and can't make any committments. I never even asked for a committment! I just like hanging out with me and want to see what happens. I have put 0 pressure on the future of our relationship. Help me to not be 'clingy', even though I don't think I am. What should I do?Dating Advice?
It sounds to me like you are doing nothing wrong. I think he needs time to get over what has happened- I imagine it wouldn't be easy to move on from an engagement so soon. It sounds like now that he has been caught lying he is being defensive and accusing you of imaginary problems. I think if you really like this guy then give him some space and stick around a bit, but the most important thing is that you are happy, and it might be better to leave now then later- it wouldn't hurt for you to see other people if he can't make up his mind- it's not like you are both commited to each other.
Good luck and I am sure you will be fine either way because you sound like you are still a happy person with decent expectation.Dating Advice?
WoW five dates in nine days. Thats hardly enough time to get serious about anyone. Just try being his friend not his girl friend. Obviously he's hurting from his prior relationship if he was serious about marrying her and she cheated. I'm sure that put a damper on being real serious about someone else so quickly. Try to understand his state of mind right now verses letting yourself get serious about him. Don't let your feelings and emotions get so rapped up. I think your both going into the relationship with different motives. Sounds like you would like more than just a friendship and hes just looking for a friend.
Advice: have a platonic relationship untill you really get to know one another. What's the rush? Too many people rush into relationships, become sexually involved only to find out that had they just gotten to know the person long enough they could have determined that he or shes not the one with out having sex. Be smart. don't let your emotions rule you choices nor decisions.
ignore him for a while he will come running back
Play hard to get. Pretend you couldn't care less if you never hear from him again. Don't call him or text him. I bet he's thrown for quite a loop and comes knocking pretty quickly.
Give him his space. If it was meant to be it will happen.
your not clingy...he's insecure...
Back off a little. Take a break from him. You are not going to change his mind about the definition of 'clingy' or whether he 'should' feel that way or not, so whether or not you think you were doesn't really matter here. The other person's perception is just as valid as your own when your are talk about relationship dynamics. It takes both people to make it work. He seams to want a little less attention from you, this is not a good sign for a relationship. If you still want to have something with him, then you need to respect that. Give him the time and then see where you are.
Of course, the extra time away from him should also give you the chance to think about whether or not you really want to be around someone that does not want you as much as you want them.
you're not being clingy....he's messed up, he lied from the beginning....MOVE ON!
let him have his freedom for a while. of course, dont let him run off with ';others'; just take a step back and start again a little slower! :)
Don't use words like '; the future of our relationship'; around him.
It sounds to me like you are doing nothing wrong. I think he needs time to get over what has happened- I imagine it wouldn't be easy to move on from an engagement so soon. It sounds like now that he has been caught lying he is being defensive and accusing you of imaginary problems. I think if you really like this guy then give him some space and stick around a bit, but the most important thing is that you are happy, and it might be better to leave now then later- it wouldn't hurt for you to see other people if he can't make up his mind- it's not like you are both commited to each other.
Good luck and I am sure you will be fine either way because you sound like you are still a happy person with decent expectation.Dating Advice?
WoW five dates in nine days. Thats hardly enough time to get serious about anyone. Just try being his friend not his girl friend. Obviously he's hurting from his prior relationship if he was serious about marrying her and she cheated. I'm sure that put a damper on being real serious about someone else so quickly. Try to understand his state of mind right now verses letting yourself get serious about him. Don't let your feelings and emotions get so rapped up. I think your both going into the relationship with different motives. Sounds like you would like more than just a friendship and hes just looking for a friend.
Advice: have a platonic relationship untill you really get to know one another. What's the rush? Too many people rush into relationships, become sexually involved only to find out that had they just gotten to know the person long enough they could have determined that he or shes not the one with out having sex. Be smart. don't let your emotions rule you choices nor decisions.
ignore him for a while he will come running back
Play hard to get. Pretend you couldn't care less if you never hear from him again. Don't call him or text him. I bet he's thrown for quite a loop and comes knocking pretty quickly.
Give him his space. If it was meant to be it will happen.
your not clingy...he's insecure...
Back off a little. Take a break from him. You are not going to change his mind about the definition of 'clingy' or whether he 'should' feel that way or not, so whether or not you think you were doesn't really matter here. The other person's perception is just as valid as your own when your are talk about relationship dynamics. It takes both people to make it work. He seams to want a little less attention from you, this is not a good sign for a relationship. If you still want to have something with him, then you need to respect that. Give him the time and then see where you are.
Of course, the extra time away from him should also give you the chance to think about whether or not you really want to be around someone that does not want you as much as you want them.
you're not being clingy....he's messed up, he lied from the beginning....MOVE ON!
let him have his freedom for a while. of course, dont let him run off with ';others'; just take a step back and start again a little slower! :)
Don't use words like '; the future of our relationship'; around him.
Dating advice?
Well here's the scoop. My freind tried to ask out a girl last year, he got nervous and said ';My friend invited me to a group date , but i don't have a date, do you wanna come?'; She said yes not knowing it was a date, just a friend get-together (cause they were close friends) He later came up to me and explained his situation and me being the good friend I am I went with him, but there was a drawback... I had no date.
I told him that and he flipped, so I grew the man-stones to tell her I didn't have a date, she just recently dumped me. So she had a friend who was looking for a BF, so I bit the bullet and said why not.
3 days passed and time came around, I put on my best DIY suit 'n slacks (yes i am a thread head, go to threadbanger.com 4 details) and met 'em at the theatre. What I saw almost made me cry... An EXTREMELY hot emo-chick, brown hair with auburn highlights, ripped-to-shred jeans and nicest body. Little did I know it was a setup. she liked me. cont. later on YahooAnsw.Dating advice?
i dont get it?
I told him that and he flipped, so I grew the man-stones to tell her I didn't have a date, she just recently dumped me. So she had a friend who was looking for a BF, so I bit the bullet and said why not.
3 days passed and time came around, I put on my best DIY suit 'n slacks (yes i am a thread head, go to threadbanger.com 4 details) and met 'em at the theatre. What I saw almost made me cry... An EXTREMELY hot emo-chick, brown hair with auburn highlights, ripped-to-shred jeans and nicest body. Little did I know it was a setup. she liked me. cont. later on YahooAnsw.Dating advice?
i dont get it?
Dating advice?
im 14 and my girlfriend just left the state on vacation she left yesterday and is getting there today she told me to call her a half hour after she is suposed to get there wat am i supose to say wen she answeres%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; then should i call her every day or should i call her every other day or wat %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt; then when she gets bac should i ask her out that first day or wate a few days or till she asks meDating advice?
she's your girlfriend. call her whenever you feel like you want to talk to her or see her. she can call you too, you know.Dating advice?
LISTEN TO YOUR HEART YOUR YOUNG STILL LET HER KNOW YOUR THINKING OF HER AND LIVE YOUR LIFE PLAN DREAM YOUR YOUNG ONCE
that is not a question. we do not pay the telephone bill. I feel bad for your parents.
she's your girlfriend. call her whenever you feel like you want to talk to her or see her. she can call you too, you know.Dating advice?
LISTEN TO YOUR HEART YOUR YOUNG STILL LET HER KNOW YOUR THINKING OF HER AND LIVE YOUR LIFE PLAN DREAM YOUR YOUNG ONCE
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that is not a question. we do not pay the telephone bill. I feel bad for your parents.
Dating advice?
So this guy ask me out on the phone and I said yes. The next day he tottally agnore me. 2 week later my friend made me talk to him and he said hi and what up. Then a week later he said whats up and ran away. Now its the last day of school and I can't talk to him becuase I don't have his phone number . I can ask my friend talk to him because he's her nieghbor but I'm to shy to ask her. What should I do?Dating advice?
dump him
he obviously doesnt see how special you are grl
u deserve better!Dating advice?
he was obviously joking when he asked u out..... it was a ';prank call'; i guess... JEEZ!! don't be so desperate..get a clue girl!
dump him
he obviously doesnt see how special you are grl
u deserve better!Dating advice?
he was obviously joking when he asked u out..... it was a ';prank call'; i guess... JEEZ!! don't be so desperate..get a clue girl!
Dating Advice?
So via my best friends mom, I've learned that my best friends sister has a crush on me. I like her as a friend, I wouldn't mind dating her, and she's also good looking. Thing is, I'm not sure on the whole situation, so any help would be appreciated. Also, I know this is a pretty stupid question, but keep in mind I'm in middle school, and something like this is life altering almost.Dating Advice?
talk to your best friend about it firstDating Advice?
Yea, sometimes dudes are cool with you dating their sister but that could be a bit awkward. I probably wouldn't unless you knew 100% this was the girl for you... in middle school, I doubt it.
...it's not a matter of having balls it's moving with some intellect.
call her
if you and your best friend are really close it may work out even if you and his sister dont... but theres a big chance that if you start dating his sister and it doesnt work out you and your best friend may not be as close its something your going to have to think about
Does your best friend have a gal that he likes? If so, you, your best friend and his gal, and his sister could maybe go to a movie and a pizza place after. Or, maybe ask if she would like to go to a school dance with another couple. I would definitely suggest double dates because that would signal that the relationship is more casual than ';going steady';.
You gotta start dating sometime and this is as good of time as any. At least you are pretty sure your invitation will not be rejected.
You'll have fun!
I think i would have a talk with your best friend first. I can tell you that most of my friends wouldn't think to much of me dating there sisters but that doesn't mean your friend feels the same. If hes OK with it make sure that you remind him that your in middle school and more than likely you will break up at some point in time. Its never good to go into a relationship thinking that it will not last, but you might want to think about what could happen if it does end and how it might change your relationship with your best friend. I would be careful. I have been in that situation a little later on in my life and when my girlfriend and I started breaking up, my friend took the side of the sister. I cant blame him because they are family. I think unless you really like this girl i would avoid the situation. At your point in life your guy friends well be there probably through the rest of your school years. Girlfriends have a tendency of changing, and more than likely will until later into high school or even way past that. I know that if i was in your situation with my best friend I would have to like her a lot before i went down that road.
ok well calling her would prob indicate to her that u kno she likes u sooo
call and ask for like something about homework than start a conversation after that
and see where it goes from there either that or talk to her at school
become good friends with her
go out to the movies with her
or take her and a friend out somewhere
or something
If you like her, and you think she's cute, give it a try. Have some good times with her..
question is, do you want a friend who has a crush on you or do you want a ';girlfriend';? you have to make a choice and for me you have to be fully committed (like stay a friend or not). That's just me.But I have a problum with dating.Only because ppl usually take it like it's a game. But your choice your proublum.My best advice. Ah what can I say!
Just ask her out flat. Have some balls here.
Talk to her
yeah, call her or text her...and talk 2 her a lot more, and get 2 know her.....and then u might like her the way she likes u!
do wat u want just be possitive that she has a crush on u before u go asking her out
and what about ur best friend?eye makeup
talk to your best friend about it firstDating Advice?
Yea, sometimes dudes are cool with you dating their sister but that could be a bit awkward. I probably wouldn't unless you knew 100% this was the girl for you... in middle school, I doubt it.
...it's not a matter of having balls it's moving with some intellect.
call her
if you and your best friend are really close it may work out even if you and his sister dont... but theres a big chance that if you start dating his sister and it doesnt work out you and your best friend may not be as close its something your going to have to think about
Does your best friend have a gal that he likes? If so, you, your best friend and his gal, and his sister could maybe go to a movie and a pizza place after. Or, maybe ask if she would like to go to a school dance with another couple. I would definitely suggest double dates because that would signal that the relationship is more casual than ';going steady';.
You gotta start dating sometime and this is as good of time as any. At least you are pretty sure your invitation will not be rejected.
You'll have fun!
I think i would have a talk with your best friend first. I can tell you that most of my friends wouldn't think to much of me dating there sisters but that doesn't mean your friend feels the same. If hes OK with it make sure that you remind him that your in middle school and more than likely you will break up at some point in time. Its never good to go into a relationship thinking that it will not last, but you might want to think about what could happen if it does end and how it might change your relationship with your best friend. I would be careful. I have been in that situation a little later on in my life and when my girlfriend and I started breaking up, my friend took the side of the sister. I cant blame him because they are family. I think unless you really like this girl i would avoid the situation. At your point in life your guy friends well be there probably through the rest of your school years. Girlfriends have a tendency of changing, and more than likely will until later into high school or even way past that. I know that if i was in your situation with my best friend I would have to like her a lot before i went down that road.
ok well calling her would prob indicate to her that u kno she likes u sooo
call and ask for like something about homework than start a conversation after that
and see where it goes from there either that or talk to her at school
become good friends with her
go out to the movies with her
or take her and a friend out somewhere
or something
If you like her, and you think she's cute, give it a try. Have some good times with her..
question is, do you want a friend who has a crush on you or do you want a ';girlfriend';? you have to make a choice and for me you have to be fully committed (like stay a friend or not). That's just me.But I have a problum with dating.Only because ppl usually take it like it's a game. But your choice your proublum.My best advice. Ah what can I say!
Just ask her out flat. Have some balls here.
Talk to her
yeah, call her or text her...and talk 2 her a lot more, and get 2 know her.....and then u might like her the way she likes u!
do wat u want just be possitive that she has a crush on u before u go asking her out
and what about ur best friend?
DATing advice?????
hey a guy wants to kiss me... i'm not even 13 and on the lips weve been going out a few weeks now but i'm not sure if i'm ready, i dont want him to think im breaking up with him , any ideas?DATing advice?????
you should just let him know that you don't feel ready to do that yet... you want to get to know him a little better before you start kissing... if he doesn't want to do that and he doesn't respect you and the way you want to do things..he isn't good enough to be the first boy you kiss =). he should respect you.DATing advice?????
First off, I assume he's 13 or thereabouts too. If not, dump him.
Kissing on the lips is harmless, especially at your age. If you don't want to for some reason, try explaining to him that you're not ready to take your relationship to that level yet. If he can't understand that, he's no good keeping.
girl,
i agree with the last answer !
i think they should have respect for you,
but you're thirteen, you should just give him a peck on the lips.
tell him slow your roll cowboy im not ready we've only been dating a few weeks
i kissed when i was 11 do it
tell him ur not ready and say to take it slower if he really likes u then he will understand
you should just let him know that you don't feel ready to do that yet... you want to get to know him a little better before you start kissing... if he doesn't want to do that and he doesn't respect you and the way you want to do things..he isn't good enough to be the first boy you kiss =). he should respect you.DATing advice?????
First off, I assume he's 13 or thereabouts too. If not, dump him.
Kissing on the lips is harmless, especially at your age. If you don't want to for some reason, try explaining to him that you're not ready to take your relationship to that level yet. If he can't understand that, he's no good keeping.
girl,
i agree with the last answer !
i think they should have respect for you,
but you're thirteen, you should just give him a peck on the lips.
tell him slow your roll cowboy im not ready we've only been dating a few weeks
i kissed when i was 11 do it
tell him ur not ready and say to take it slower if he really likes u then he will understand
SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
i have been divorced from my abusive and irresponsible ex-husband for 8 months now and have adjusted to being the only provider and parent of my two great girls. i have graduated college and started my new career, decorated my new apartment and had a wonderful makeover. i'm doing well, except...
i am now ready to date again. i have no clue as to how to go about meeting men to date, or telling men gently that i have two children that mean the world to me. i don't want to date a man who has children, just a personal preference i have. is it worth looking for a decent guy who is willing to date a single mom? or will i be wasting my time? any advice to give me?SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
am so proud of you for being strong, and a great role model!
You have made wonderful choices.
You are going to HATE my answer, but it's given from one single mom to another who's been there (and still am!).
WAIT!
Wait until your beautiful girls are out of school, raised and 18 years old.
They have been through a horrible ordeal with the abuse and divorce, and don't need to deal with moms romantic life.
Your girls will feel more important to you if you wait, because your attention won't be divided.
They won't have to deal with drama from the boyfriends.
There will be no chance of them (GOD forbid) being molested by a man whom you trust... and I have seen it personally too many times!
They won't get attached to another man, only to see him move on when it doesn't work out.
I beg of you to at least consider my advice.
I have been there and my daughter has been very negatively affected by my bad choices.
Just wait a few more years until they are grown.
Focus on being the wonderful MOMMY that you have showed yourself to be so far...
Don't let a man come in and possibly ruin the good work you have done.
I know it's lonely, and it's nice to have some female friends you can count on... but it's worth it!
Good luck to you and your girls!SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
Ya one advice DON'T do the whole bar thing!
ask your girlfriends if they know someone they think will be a good match for you.
well of course it's worth looking honey...it's just a matter of where you're gonna look.....stay away from the whole barscene, who wants some drunken schmukk for the long haul? Try volunteering at your daughter's school, or anywhere for that matter, get involved with your church and if you aren't religious then just pick something....you'll find you're going to attract more men the more confident you are, so it sounds like you're off to an excellent start! Just make sure you know exactly what you want this time and do not cave in to loneliness.....that guy is out there who is going to love your precious girls just like they were his very own!
And congrats on doing so well....I too am a single mom of two very young children...haven't even picked out a new career to go with but your story has totally encouraged me! thank you!
A decent guy for you is out there.
Check out grocery stores, department stores, bookstores, etc.
hmmmmm, so you are a woman with kids but you don't want to date any guys with kids? how hypocritical that is
sorry, but i refuse to help someone like that
CREATE A MYSPACE....I WAS NOT EVEN LOOKING TO DATE AND I HAVE FOUR KIDS AND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS HAS NONE OF HIS OWN AND WE ARE HAPPILY EVER AFTER...
Mans side. Me and a bit of my friends (married now) when we were single had no problem dating women that have children. When you are a little older and single that is just how a bit of the women are. Just don't shove the lovely children at us. We understand they are your world and come first. Even nice to meet and see them if they are nice. What ever your hobbies are and you do for fun is where you met guys and ask or get asked out. It does not hurt to ask a guy if he would like to get a coffee (drink of what ever kind) or lunch sometime. Good luck it is not as bad as most women fret.
I had that same problem too. I didn't have any luck with meeting anyone! So I decided to try Yahoo Personals. I know, it's kinda weird, but guess what? I found my husband there. Just be careful, they do have strange people there too.
You seem to still have one issue unresolved. If you want a man who is willing to accept that you have two children. Why is it you refuse to date a man who may have children?
i am now ready to date again. i have no clue as to how to go about meeting men to date, or telling men gently that i have two children that mean the world to me. i don't want to date a man who has children, just a personal preference i have. is it worth looking for a decent guy who is willing to date a single mom? or will i be wasting my time? any advice to give me?SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
am so proud of you for being strong, and a great role model!
You have made wonderful choices.
You are going to HATE my answer, but it's given from one single mom to another who's been there (and still am!).
WAIT!
Wait until your beautiful girls are out of school, raised and 18 years old.
They have been through a horrible ordeal with the abuse and divorce, and don't need to deal with moms romantic life.
Your girls will feel more important to you if you wait, because your attention won't be divided.
They won't have to deal with drama from the boyfriends.
There will be no chance of them (GOD forbid) being molested by a man whom you trust... and I have seen it personally too many times!
They won't get attached to another man, only to see him move on when it doesn't work out.
I beg of you to at least consider my advice.
I have been there and my daughter has been very negatively affected by my bad choices.
Just wait a few more years until they are grown.
Focus on being the wonderful MOMMY that you have showed yourself to be so far...
Don't let a man come in and possibly ruin the good work you have done.
I know it's lonely, and it's nice to have some female friends you can count on... but it's worth it!
Good luck to you and your girls!SINGLE MOMS: divorced mom of two needs dating advice!?
Ya one advice DON'T do the whole bar thing!
ask your girlfriends if they know someone they think will be a good match for you.
well of course it's worth looking honey...it's just a matter of where you're gonna look.....stay away from the whole barscene, who wants some drunken schmukk for the long haul? Try volunteering at your daughter's school, or anywhere for that matter, get involved with your church and if you aren't religious then just pick something....you'll find you're going to attract more men the more confident you are, so it sounds like you're off to an excellent start! Just make sure you know exactly what you want this time and do not cave in to loneliness.....that guy is out there who is going to love your precious girls just like they were his very own!
And congrats on doing so well....I too am a single mom of two very young children...haven't even picked out a new career to go with but your story has totally encouraged me! thank you!
A decent guy for you is out there.
Check out grocery stores, department stores, bookstores, etc.
hmmmmm, so you are a woman with kids but you don't want to date any guys with kids? how hypocritical that is
sorry, but i refuse to help someone like that
CREATE A MYSPACE....I WAS NOT EVEN LOOKING TO DATE AND I HAVE FOUR KIDS AND THE MAN OF MY DREAMS HAS NONE OF HIS OWN AND WE ARE HAPPILY EVER AFTER...
Mans side. Me and a bit of my friends (married now) when we were single had no problem dating women that have children. When you are a little older and single that is just how a bit of the women are. Just don't shove the lovely children at us. We understand they are your world and come first. Even nice to meet and see them if they are nice. What ever your hobbies are and you do for fun is where you met guys and ask or get asked out. It does not hurt to ask a guy if he would like to get a coffee (drink of what ever kind) or lunch sometime. Good luck it is not as bad as most women fret.
I had that same problem too. I didn't have any luck with meeting anyone! So I decided to try Yahoo Personals. I know, it's kinda weird, but guess what? I found my husband there. Just be careful, they do have strange people there too.
You seem to still have one issue unresolved. If you want a man who is willing to accept that you have two children. Why is it you refuse to date a man who may have children?
Dating Advice?
theres this guy at work i think he's really cute but he works in a different department (i work in a supermarket) and i really want to start talking to him but im pretty shy and i dont know how to start a conversation but i really want to get to know him coz he seems like a really awesome guy. Any advice is appreciated.Dating Advice?
JUST HAVE CONFIDENCE AND GO AND TALK TO HIM
WHEN EVER YOU SEE HIM JUST SAY HELLO AND HOPEFULLY HE'LL RESPOND
JUST HAVE CONFIDENCE AND GO AND TALK TO HIM
WHEN EVER YOU SEE HIM JUST SAY HELLO AND HOPEFULLY HE'LL RESPOND
(dating advice, please!)?
i had a first date tonight with a girl i 'met' online. known her two months... one month on match, one month on myspace.. in which she requested me on and sent me a msg first. i mentioned meeting up few weeks ago, just saying we should sometime, and that i enjoy talking to her. she said ' i like talking to you too' and agreed we should meet up. a week later she brought it up.. i asked her what shes doing that next week, she said, 'hanging out with you silly.' i was on vacation, which she knew about, so i replied 3/4 days later, to find a good time to meet up. she said she was getting over a cold... 3 days later she emails me saying shes all better and says ';maybe we could talk on the phone. what do you think? and arrange to meet up.';
i reply with yes and my cell#, and then she gives hers. we've been txting back n forth. so today around noon or 1pm she txted me (havent talked on phone yet) and said she had to cancel and shes really sorry, that she has to get a tooth pulled(dating advice, please!)?
dude honestly r u sure this girl anit like crazy 1st, and **** dude if she not y the hell not meet her n stuff u should be like yo can i go c u n **** do it pimp show u care so u can hit that dogg rember all guys c is t i t s , p u s s y , and a s s and if she got those nice lips well u know what those lips are ment for homie i would call her up n c whats the deal if u can mett her up soon or if u can c her at her place
i reply with yes and my cell#, and then she gives hers. we've been txting back n forth. so today around noon or 1pm she txted me (havent talked on phone yet) and said she had to cancel and shes really sorry, that she has to get a tooth pulled(dating advice, please!)?
dude honestly r u sure this girl anit like crazy 1st, and **** dude if she not y the hell not meet her n stuff u should be like yo can i go c u n **** do it pimp show u care so u can hit that dogg rember all guys c is t i t s , p u s s y , and a s s and if she got those nice lips well u know what those lips are ment for homie i would call her up n c whats the deal if u can mett her up soon or if u can c her at her place
Dating advice again, please?
ok, I think she's not interested in me any longer after our meeting. I will meet her today just because I know a man who rents an appartment and she needs it so we'll go together there and I will introduce her. I think it's the only reason she meets me again though.
But still I'm not 100% sure. During our date she was smiling and laughing but gave me no hugs or kisses, also mentioned she was sleepy but let her to take her home.
So as you know, today I'll see her again. Should I still ask if she would be interested in seeing me one more trime? Should I appologise for beeing an idiot or whatever?
many thanksDating advice again, please?
you didn't do anything wrong there, and i think ur really sweet to still be interested to meet her. oh man, don't you know how many girls out there are looking for guys like you, guys who still wanna see and meet her although she's been trying to play hard to get??
i think she's only playing hard to get and MOST girls do that, just to see how much you like her... go all lengths for her to pass this test!! smilling and laughing are good signs, great! be consistent in asking her out and i'm sure she'll love it!
once you gain her trust that u sincerely like her, she'll open up to you and hopefully will feel comfortable enough to hug and kiss you... good luck!Dating advice again, please?
You have nothing to apologise for. If you really like her then you have nothing to lose by asking her out again. You will know by her reaction to this whether she is genuine or not. Good luck!!
First thing; relax and take it easy.
Just be as natural as you can; do what you've got to do with the apartment and be yourself. Invite her out again, maybe to a art gallery or something a bit more interactive over the next couple of days and see how she reacts.
If it's a negative response (In tone, body langauge as well as to the invite), then cut your losses and move on. However, once you've made that invite the ball is in her court to offer an alternative date/event, etc. See how it all lays out basically; you should be able to tell from that.
It doesn't sound like you should apologise for anything really (Unless there's something that you missed) and hugging and kissing on a first date isn't all ways a happening thing.
But it could also be that she may not be interested, which is also fine in a way. Just relax and be yourself and handle the situation.
play it cool meet up with her again do a lil small talk but dude u did nothing wrong so relax. ask her if shes interested and if she says no shake it off act like it didnt mean crap and go on about ur day.
i don't think you are an idiot!!!!!i think she loved you but she is shy.you try to make the first stepp but take it slowley so you don't scare hed.BY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't know how long you guys have known each other prior to your meeting earlier. But if she isn't as affectionate or open yet as you like her to be, it doesn't mean automatically that she isn't interested.
Sometimes it is hard to read between the lines. So if you are unsure but you like her a lot, then try asking her out again.
i would ask her if she is interested or of she just wants to be friends and see what she says. you sound to me like a real gentleman, and if she is not interested then you wil find someone who you will be happy with.
you've got the measure of this little madam I think. She's a user. let her go her own way and save your heart the trouble. I bet if you try to walk away she'll come running after you. some people just don't know how to treat others..they get so wrapped up in what they want and need. oh well...next!!!
nothing to apologize...she might said the truth..wat u can do is spend more time to date her out to get her attentions..she will koe your motive when time come..than u will koe the answer..
do more concern by asking anything u can help to ease her stress like moving in furniture for her new units...etc...
shes a fake and shes a user..go find another girl who deserves you more.
well boy, for the 1st time date, mayb there is still a lil' shy. I'm a girl, boy, i had going trough all this stuff. maybe she needs a few times to comfortable herself with someone new for her. maybe this time you should say something nice, romantic and.ask her with softly and gentely voice ( well after u had done ur buisiness k )u know what i mean dude! then, discover what she likes and what she doesnt k. then ask her to go 4 a date 4 the sec time. if she loves too, on your date, dont forget to buy 4 her champaign roses. yeah, thats what a girl really wanted. by the way, good luck 4 today k. bye
u did nothin wrong so don't appologise ... she should !!!
Or find another girl!
gd luck dude ..
But still I'm not 100% sure. During our date she was smiling and laughing but gave me no hugs or kisses, also mentioned she was sleepy but let her to take her home.
So as you know, today I'll see her again. Should I still ask if she would be interested in seeing me one more trime? Should I appologise for beeing an idiot or whatever?
many thanksDating advice again, please?
you didn't do anything wrong there, and i think ur really sweet to still be interested to meet her. oh man, don't you know how many girls out there are looking for guys like you, guys who still wanna see and meet her although she's been trying to play hard to get??
i think she's only playing hard to get and MOST girls do that, just to see how much you like her... go all lengths for her to pass this test!! smilling and laughing are good signs, great! be consistent in asking her out and i'm sure she'll love it!
once you gain her trust that u sincerely like her, she'll open up to you and hopefully will feel comfortable enough to hug and kiss you... good luck!Dating advice again, please?
You have nothing to apologise for. If you really like her then you have nothing to lose by asking her out again. You will know by her reaction to this whether she is genuine or not. Good luck!!
First thing; relax and take it easy.
Just be as natural as you can; do what you've got to do with the apartment and be yourself. Invite her out again, maybe to a art gallery or something a bit more interactive over the next couple of days and see how she reacts.
If it's a negative response (In tone, body langauge as well as to the invite), then cut your losses and move on. However, once you've made that invite the ball is in her court to offer an alternative date/event, etc. See how it all lays out basically; you should be able to tell from that.
It doesn't sound like you should apologise for anything really (Unless there's something that you missed) and hugging and kissing on a first date isn't all ways a happening thing.
But it could also be that she may not be interested, which is also fine in a way. Just relax and be yourself and handle the situation.
play it cool meet up with her again do a lil small talk but dude u did nothing wrong so relax. ask her if shes interested and if she says no shake it off act like it didnt mean crap and go on about ur day.
i don't think you are an idiot!!!!!i think she loved you but she is shy.you try to make the first stepp but take it slowley so you don't scare hed.BY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't know how long you guys have known each other prior to your meeting earlier. But if she isn't as affectionate or open yet as you like her to be, it doesn't mean automatically that she isn't interested.
Sometimes it is hard to read between the lines. So if you are unsure but you like her a lot, then try asking her out again.
i would ask her if she is interested or of she just wants to be friends and see what she says. you sound to me like a real gentleman, and if she is not interested then you wil find someone who you will be happy with.
you've got the measure of this little madam I think. She's a user. let her go her own way and save your heart the trouble. I bet if you try to walk away she'll come running after you. some people just don't know how to treat others..they get so wrapped up in what they want and need. oh well...next!!!
nothing to apologize...she might said the truth..wat u can do is spend more time to date her out to get her attentions..she will koe your motive when time come..than u will koe the answer..
do more concern by asking anything u can help to ease her stress like moving in furniture for her new units...etc...
shes a fake and shes a user..go find another girl who deserves you more.
well boy, for the 1st time date, mayb there is still a lil' shy. I'm a girl, boy, i had going trough all this stuff. maybe she needs a few times to comfortable herself with someone new for her. maybe this time you should say something nice, romantic and.ask her with softly and gentely voice ( well after u had done ur buisiness k )u know what i mean dude! then, discover what she likes and what she doesnt k. then ask her to go 4 a date 4 the sec time. if she loves too, on your date, dont forget to buy 4 her champaign roses. yeah, thats what a girl really wanted. by the way, good luck 4 today k. bye
u did nothin wrong so don't appologise ... she should !!!
Or find another girl!
gd luck dude ..
Dating Advice?
Me and one of my best friends started going out and i HATE it...
This is the story... We started going out last night and then we kissed and i felt nothing at all...what do i need to do?Dating Advice?
Say u just want to be friends if ur not happy then don't keep going out with her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know this will sound really cheesey but listen to ur heart.Dating Advice?
You have to tell your best friend that you just want to continue to be friends and that you don't want a commitment right now.
Tell them that you didn't really feel anything when you kissed and that you take that as a sign you guys shouldn't be together because it won't go anywhere.
You need to be honest with her.
This actually happened to me and he told me in a shy way for a man in his 40's, that he liked me better as a friend. I laughed and said no wonder we get along better as friends, I love your honesty, I feel the same way::))
It's just scary because you have no idea how the other person is really feeling, and look on the bright side, if you do it the way above, oh we were out having dinner, both trying to keep the conversation light. I'm sure she must have felt, you felt nothing at all...:) I'm just trying to keep it light.
Good luck, if she's a true friend, she'll understand ~
-is your best friend (one of them) male or female or animal? (sorry have to ask)
-male on male, well i don't know about that. if you didn't liked the kiss and don't know how to tell him, you may have some issue. unless ur European (men kiss eahother as friends)
-female on male, just ignore it, your friends and since you felt nothing, then no harm is done (on your part) but she may feel something on her side, perhaps that's why she kissed, or very careing type. or intoxicated (the monent was right, the moon was bright)
-animal, take shorter walks and no treats...
-heck just ask how they felt about it. first time for both of you.
Break her Heart into Thousands of pieces... Be a Moron!
put it in th nicest way possible that u wish t go back t being friends.
Give it time to see if something develops... or break up, but if your going to make the decision to break up without giving it a chance do it right a way so you don't hurt th person.eye makeup
This is the story... We started going out last night and then we kissed and i felt nothing at all...what do i need to do?Dating Advice?
Say u just want to be friends if ur not happy then don't keep going out with her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know this will sound really cheesey but listen to ur heart.Dating Advice?
You have to tell your best friend that you just want to continue to be friends and that you don't want a commitment right now.
Tell them that you didn't really feel anything when you kissed and that you take that as a sign you guys shouldn't be together because it won't go anywhere.
You need to be honest with her.
This actually happened to me and he told me in a shy way for a man in his 40's, that he liked me better as a friend. I laughed and said no wonder we get along better as friends, I love your honesty, I feel the same way::))
It's just scary because you have no idea how the other person is really feeling, and look on the bright side, if you do it the way above, oh we were out having dinner, both trying to keep the conversation light. I'm sure she must have felt, you felt nothing at all...:) I'm just trying to keep it light.
Good luck, if she's a true friend, she'll understand ~
-is your best friend (one of them) male or female or animal? (sorry have to ask)
-male on male, well i don't know about that. if you didn't liked the kiss and don't know how to tell him, you may have some issue. unless ur European (men kiss eahother as friends)
-female on male, just ignore it, your friends and since you felt nothing, then no harm is done (on your part) but she may feel something on her side, perhaps that's why she kissed, or very careing type. or intoxicated (the monent was right, the moon was bright)
-animal, take shorter walks and no treats...
-heck just ask how they felt about it. first time for both of you.
Break her Heart into Thousands of pieces... Be a Moron!
put it in th nicest way possible that u wish t go back t being friends.
Give it time to see if something develops... or break up, but if your going to make the decision to break up without giving it a chance do it right a way so you don't hurt th person.
Dating advice?
Okay girls I am 21 years old and am kinda behind in the dating game. I not really atractive but am a really sweat and caring guy. I have recently been shot down twice (one by a close freid whom i'm sure has feelings for me). I just need ideas of where to me girls and maybe a conversation starter. I am kind of shy so this isn't easy for me. Please helpDating advice?
dont be let down by the girls who reject you just keep trying to the right one comes along ... and trust me she will patience is the key
but honestly you can find a great girl almost anywhere depends on your type of girl.. quiet and conservative... libraries and bookstores maybe cafes
outgoing and spontaneous.. the city, clubs the beach
but thats just a basic stereotype any kind of girl can be anywhere,
and the key to a great conversation starter is speaking in the moment, use the circumstances around you to start a conversation mayb it could be a little joke or something, but remember usually if its too cheesy girls wont take you seriously, keep it simple and charming and with a touch of humour.
also the main main thing is to be 100% confident, girls love confident guys and love a guy who isnt going to run for covers at the slightest thing so the positive energy will send great signals to her.
i hope i helped and i wish u all the best
dont lose hopeDating advice?
the net
dont be let down by the girls who reject you just keep trying to the right one comes along ... and trust me she will patience is the key
but honestly you can find a great girl almost anywhere depends on your type of girl.. quiet and conservative... libraries and bookstores maybe cafes
outgoing and spontaneous.. the city, clubs the beach
but thats just a basic stereotype any kind of girl can be anywhere,
and the key to a great conversation starter is speaking in the moment, use the circumstances around you to start a conversation mayb it could be a little joke or something, but remember usually if its too cheesy girls wont take you seriously, keep it simple and charming and with a touch of humour.
also the main main thing is to be 100% confident, girls love confident guys and love a guy who isnt going to run for covers at the slightest thing so the positive energy will send great signals to her.
i hope i helped and i wish u all the best
dont lose hopeDating advice?
the net
Dating Advice?
This guy asked me out and I am excited for our date, but I'm worried that there might be some awkward silences. How can I avoid an awkward silence? Thank ya!Dating Advice?
Instead of worrying about the awkward silences, do this: Let them happen. Sometimes it's in those spaces that romance blossoms. Okay that sounds corny but it's true, has to be. But really if you're that worried just try to think of some topics beforehand that you can bring up if there is a lull in conversation. Me personally though, I can't stand talking non-stop and most guys won't like being with a girl who talks non-stop. Let him help you fill in those silences and don't feel you have to be the one to keep conversation flowing. Be natural. Relax.Dating Advice?
Personally, I never find silences awkward. But, I find that if the other person is feeling bored or awkward, I ask them a personal question, which also helps them open up. Usually not about them, but more of a situation, or someone around us. If we were out at a baseball game, I would say 'I can't believe that guy is wearing a football jersey, it IS a baseball game. I could see him wearing another team, but not another sport...what do you think?'; Or something more direct, such as 'Would you ever wear a football jersey to a baseball game?';
And if those don't feel good for you, work usually is a good topic. Either they like it, and they get talkative, or they don't like it, and they change the subject to something THEY want to talk about.
Hope I helped.
A lot of the time it's assumed that the guy has to keep the conversation going, but if you want to avoid akward silence tell some stories about yourself, overall just keep talking if he won't. Don't worry, you won't sound egotistical or anything, guys like it when a girl can have a conversation going. And once you're both into it it'll be easy to just enjoy each other.
I wouldn't worry about it really. Just have a good time! You could always have few questions to ask, and memorize those, but trust me, once the conversation starts flowing, it's a good sign of a great date! However.... if it's all silence, it's probably just not a good sign he's into you.
Just relax, and be thankful your going out on a date!
I would just keep asking a whole lot of ?'s about himself and hopefully if hes interested will do the same back honestly don't stress to much I notice the more you stress and worry about it the awkwarder it will be but if you just be yourself and act calm you will notice he will feel same way hopefully making your date a success
if you and your date are meant to become more than just friends, than there should not be any awkward silences, correct? people just click when things are meant to be. if it is awkward and uncomfortble, i would not reccomend a second date, and with that said, not a relationship.
There are going to be awkward silences weather you like it or not. They just cannot be prevented.
But when there is an awkward silence... just start another topic or say a little comment... like this place is soo nice or this food looks amazing, can I have a bite of yours?
Or excuse yourself... :)
well what i did was to ask him about himself things he done as child.
whats his favourite colour ,music he listens to, what he does for fun, try to keep it flowing you know like that i even told mt date i was nervous he just laughed say him too
good luck on your date have fun!
if you dont like aquward silence just when it comes to that bring up something you both like or something thats going on or scenery then that should help!
there will always be ackward silences, its apart of life. but whatever you do. do not say, ';ackwarddd'; when theres a silence to break the ackwardness, because you will make him think you think hes ackward. jus start a new conversation.
To avoid awkward silence moments, spark a very goooood conversation, one that's controversial , one that both of you share in common, you'll be talking all night ! good luck!
just start asking questions but dont seem urgent and desperate. just say something like uh what do you think about britney spears and how she has gone from being the perfect role model to crazy chick? it always gets a kick out of everyone to talk about britney spears lol
Compliments is the way to break the ice. Tell him he looks good today, or after hugging him tell him he smells good. Let him know you like him, and make him feel good about himself. As a bonus, you'll get compliments back.
well just be your self and ask a question, comment on the food, go to the bathroom if there is silence and come back and talk about like a weird person you saw in the bathroom or anything... i dont.
realize that the awkwardness is inside you. learn to breathe in those moments. wait for the other person to say something. just be comfortable in silence
continue a conversation. talk about something interesting that you guys can both relate to, and something you can BOTH talk about.
plz help me:
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Keep him talking! Haha.
Just try to bring up a lot of stuff that you know about, so that if there is one you can throw in a fact or two.
Good luck!
give explanations to his questions, not just yes or no answers. and always ask him open-ended questions. if there is a silence, ask him something about himself! everyone loves to talk about themself...lol.
good luck!
Just go with the flow. WHen you find a topic that you are both interested in just go with that. Im sure that will keep the conversation opening up to new topice. GOOD LUCK!!
ok to avoid awkward silence just keeping of things to ask him like his favorite bands,shows,movies, tht should be a great date
I found a website that has dating tips. It might help you.
stare deep in his eyes and it gets him mezmorized, if that doesn't work bring up any random question he probably feels the same way you do just don't worry =)
Don't stop the conversation. If you feel that there will be an akward silence ask him a qestion.
Ask him about himself or something he was just talking about. Now, if he doesn't ask you many questions it's a bad sign, trust me.
Everytime he asks u a question make it more interting
Well, you could always think of things to say ahead of time.....so if there ever is a awkward silence..you could just bring something up...good luck: ]] hope i helped
Smile or laugh or ask him a question! OOH or compliment him:]]
Tell him stories
If ur really clicking with this guy, the conversation should just flow.
Instead of worrying about the awkward silences, do this: Let them happen. Sometimes it's in those spaces that romance blossoms. Okay that sounds corny but it's true, has to be. But really if you're that worried just try to think of some topics beforehand that you can bring up if there is a lull in conversation. Me personally though, I can't stand talking non-stop and most guys won't like being with a girl who talks non-stop. Let him help you fill in those silences and don't feel you have to be the one to keep conversation flowing. Be natural. Relax.Dating Advice?
Personally, I never find silences awkward. But, I find that if the other person is feeling bored or awkward, I ask them a personal question, which also helps them open up. Usually not about them, but more of a situation, or someone around us. If we were out at a baseball game, I would say 'I can't believe that guy is wearing a football jersey, it IS a baseball game. I could see him wearing another team, but not another sport...what do you think?'; Or something more direct, such as 'Would you ever wear a football jersey to a baseball game?';
And if those don't feel good for you, work usually is a good topic. Either they like it, and they get talkative, or they don't like it, and they change the subject to something THEY want to talk about.
Hope I helped.
A lot of the time it's assumed that the guy has to keep the conversation going, but if you want to avoid akward silence tell some stories about yourself, overall just keep talking if he won't. Don't worry, you won't sound egotistical or anything, guys like it when a girl can have a conversation going. And once you're both into it it'll be easy to just enjoy each other.
I wouldn't worry about it really. Just have a good time! You could always have few questions to ask, and memorize those, but trust me, once the conversation starts flowing, it's a good sign of a great date! However.... if it's all silence, it's probably just not a good sign he's into you.
Just relax, and be thankful your going out on a date!
I would just keep asking a whole lot of ?'s about himself and hopefully if hes interested will do the same back honestly don't stress to much I notice the more you stress and worry about it the awkwarder it will be but if you just be yourself and act calm you will notice he will feel same way hopefully making your date a success
if you and your date are meant to become more than just friends, than there should not be any awkward silences, correct? people just click when things are meant to be. if it is awkward and uncomfortble, i would not reccomend a second date, and with that said, not a relationship.
There are going to be awkward silences weather you like it or not. They just cannot be prevented.
But when there is an awkward silence... just start another topic or say a little comment... like this place is soo nice or this food looks amazing, can I have a bite of yours?
Or excuse yourself... :)
well what i did was to ask him about himself things he done as child.
whats his favourite colour ,music he listens to, what he does for fun, try to keep it flowing you know like that i even told mt date i was nervous he just laughed say him too
good luck on your date have fun!
if you dont like aquward silence just when it comes to that bring up something you both like or something thats going on or scenery then that should help!
there will always be ackward silences, its apart of life. but whatever you do. do not say, ';ackwarddd'; when theres a silence to break the ackwardness, because you will make him think you think hes ackward. jus start a new conversation.
To avoid awkward silence moments, spark a very goooood conversation, one that's controversial , one that both of you share in common, you'll be talking all night ! good luck!
just start asking questions but dont seem urgent and desperate. just say something like uh what do you think about britney spears and how she has gone from being the perfect role model to crazy chick? it always gets a kick out of everyone to talk about britney spears lol
Compliments is the way to break the ice. Tell him he looks good today, or after hugging him tell him he smells good. Let him know you like him, and make him feel good about himself. As a bonus, you'll get compliments back.
well just be your self and ask a question, comment on the food, go to the bathroom if there is silence and come back and talk about like a weird person you saw in the bathroom or anything... i dont.
realize that the awkwardness is inside you. learn to breathe in those moments. wait for the other person to say something. just be comfortable in silence
continue a conversation. talk about something interesting that you guys can both relate to, and something you can BOTH talk about.
plz help me:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Keep him talking! Haha.
Just try to bring up a lot of stuff that you know about, so that if there is one you can throw in a fact or two.
Good luck!
give explanations to his questions, not just yes or no answers. and always ask him open-ended questions. if there is a silence, ask him something about himself! everyone loves to talk about themself...lol.
good luck!
Just go with the flow. WHen you find a topic that you are both interested in just go with that. Im sure that will keep the conversation opening up to new topice. GOOD LUCK!!
ok to avoid awkward silence just keeping of things to ask him like his favorite bands,shows,movies, tht should be a great date
I found a website that has dating tips. It might help you.
stare deep in his eyes and it gets him mezmorized, if that doesn't work bring up any random question he probably feels the same way you do just don't worry =)
Don't stop the conversation. If you feel that there will be an akward silence ask him a qestion.
Ask him about himself or something he was just talking about. Now, if he doesn't ask you many questions it's a bad sign, trust me.
Everytime he asks u a question make it more interting
Well, you could always think of things to say ahead of time.....so if there ever is a awkward silence..you could just bring something up...good luck: ]] hope i helped
Smile or laugh or ask him a question! OOH or compliment him:]]
Tell him stories
If ur really clicking with this guy, the conversation should just flow.
Dating advice...Am I trying too hard??
1st of all I got out of a BAD relationship about 1yr ago and haven't dated anyone seriously since then... until recently...I started dating this guy about a month and a week ago (he got out of a BAD relationship about 1yr ago as well) and things were great at 1st, he was all over me and begging to do things with me and I was the one who was extremely hesitant. As we continued to go out...I know things moved wayyy too fast and ever since we had sex it's like he's into me then he acts as though I'm a bother! I feel like I'm the one into him now and he's not! I don't know how to take his indicisiveness!?!?!? We have even talked about how we feel about eachother and agreed to date eachother...but is he hiding something or am I just freakin out??Dating advice...Am I trying too hard??
The answer to this is simple. Prior to sex, you were like a puzzle he was desperate to solve. After sex, the mystery is gone and so is his interest. Do yourself a favor, move on and take it slower next time.Dating advice...Am I trying too hard??
That's why women sould NOT go to bed too soon. He got what he wanted now you are another notch in the belt.
Sounds to me like he is not ready for a relationship. He might not be over his last girlfriend yet. It's fun and exciting at first when you meet someone new, but once you have sex there's no more mystery. He's had you and the challenge is over. Not to say he can't like you, he just doesn't sound ready for anything serious. You should not allow him to make you feel like a bother. Go find someone who is ready to treat you right!
I don't meen to sound cruel or anything but but maybe he feals that since you've already done it there's noting left in the relationship for him, if you want a good relationsip that's more than physical maybe he's not the right guy for you. but i dont know him, i mean we've never met so maybe, he's the tottal oppiste your relationship could just be having a slight slump in your relationship. every relationship gets to a certain point were you question why you're together and whether you should stay together or not. My relationship got to a terrible spot were for a month I questioned why we were even together, but everything worked out fine in the end. So, it's up to you to know what kind of guy it is that your with, but if he does really care for you and he's just not sure how to show it right now since you've done it, then maybe you should talk to him about it, or slide him so oh so suttle hints ;) good luck(L)
ask him how he feels bout you
Lord! You had sex, now he's not as interested. What could the reason possibly be? Indecisive = I got what I want and now I'm not as interested, but I might like to have more sex later so I guess I'll appear somewhat interested every once in a while when I want some.
It maybe a case of he wanted the chase and now he has you he isnt interested or he may have just given up.
Ask him to go out somewhere and be as vague as you can, if he says yes I would say he is interested still but if he makes excuses then he aint interested.
Men across the worls will hate me forever for this, but, here goes...
Isn't it amazing how many women report that their men start ignoring them after the sex starts. I'm not sure, but that may be why they used to wait until you got married. Now, in this day and age, that is pretty extreme, but, carry on the spirit of that tradition. Wait, for goodness freakin sakes. If the guy will wait a month or two or three, even, without becoming a roaring jerk about not getting any, then he might actually like you. Humans are confusing, and their actions don't always match their statements, even when they don't realize it. I can't tell you how many of my bro's get crazy hung up on a girl as soon as they hit the sack, only to go cool on them as soon as they are 'gettin' some' on a regular basis. This guy doesn't know his own mind/heart, but that isn't uncommon. Be prepared for the possiblity that he just isn't there yet.
Well, some people are truly ';conquer and divide'; people. But, for most people, it is just a matter of energy.
He was heavy into you, and you were keeping him at a distance. Now, the roles have switched. However, it is not the end... You need to simply move some of the energy back!
Try not to make yourself so available to him. Let him work for your attention. If he shows a lack of interest, then give him what he wants by going and doing your own thing. This can even mean going on a date with another guy!
What you do is up to you, but sometimes a date with an attractive guy can show that a lack of interest on his part can lead to a lack of interest on your part.
A date can also be extremely harmless on your part, simply a way of keeping your dating skills up to speed, and for letting him know that you are desired by others.
Men and women are both guilty of relationship complacency when they reach a goal that they set for themselves. The trick is to show them that having sex with you is not the only goal that they have to achieve... =) Let them know that they have other goals to achieve with you!
The easiest way to find yourself a date fast, is to use the below website. As a dating consultant, I use it with all of my clients, I highly recommend it!
I JUST HAD A BOOK PUBLISHED ON DATING. NOT TO SEEM COLD BUT YOU WERE A CONQUEST THAT HE HAD HE CONQUERED. ONCE YOU SLEPT WITH HIM HE ACHIEVED HIS GOAL. MEN LIKE HIM ARE PIGS AND COULD CARE LESS ABOUT WHO YOU ARE OR YOUR BELIEFS AND CHANCES ARE IF YOU CUT HIM OFF FROM SEX FOR A MONTH, HE WOULD NO LONGER BE ANYWHERE NEAR YOU. ONE QUESTION I ASK WOMEN IN MY BOOK IS,,WHAT DO U WEAR ON UR FIRST DATE,,IN OTHER WORDS HOW MUCH DO U SHOW.. MY THEORY IS TO SHOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING,,NO CLEQAVAGE AT ALL. TEST HIS CHARACTER. WOULD U RATHER HAVE HIM ASK U OUT AGAIN FOR WHO U ARE OR FOR YOUR CLEAVAGE....LOSE THIS GUY
The answer to this is simple. Prior to sex, you were like a puzzle he was desperate to solve. After sex, the mystery is gone and so is his interest. Do yourself a favor, move on and take it slower next time.Dating advice...Am I trying too hard??
That's why women sould NOT go to bed too soon. He got what he wanted now you are another notch in the belt.
Sounds to me like he is not ready for a relationship. He might not be over his last girlfriend yet. It's fun and exciting at first when you meet someone new, but once you have sex there's no more mystery. He's had you and the challenge is over. Not to say he can't like you, he just doesn't sound ready for anything serious. You should not allow him to make you feel like a bother. Go find someone who is ready to treat you right!
I don't meen to sound cruel or anything but but maybe he feals that since you've already done it there's noting left in the relationship for him, if you want a good relationsip that's more than physical maybe he's not the right guy for you. but i dont know him, i mean we've never met so maybe, he's the tottal oppiste your relationship could just be having a slight slump in your relationship. every relationship gets to a certain point were you question why you're together and whether you should stay together or not. My relationship got to a terrible spot were for a month I questioned why we were even together, but everything worked out fine in the end. So, it's up to you to know what kind of guy it is that your with, but if he does really care for you and he's just not sure how to show it right now since you've done it, then maybe you should talk to him about it, or slide him so oh so suttle hints ;) good luck(L)
ask him how he feels bout you
Lord! You had sex, now he's not as interested. What could the reason possibly be? Indecisive = I got what I want and now I'm not as interested, but I might like to have more sex later so I guess I'll appear somewhat interested every once in a while when I want some.
It maybe a case of he wanted the chase and now he has you he isnt interested or he may have just given up.
Ask him to go out somewhere and be as vague as you can, if he says yes I would say he is interested still but if he makes excuses then he aint interested.
Men across the worls will hate me forever for this, but, here goes...
Isn't it amazing how many women report that their men start ignoring them after the sex starts. I'm not sure, but that may be why they used to wait until you got married. Now, in this day and age, that is pretty extreme, but, carry on the spirit of that tradition. Wait, for goodness freakin sakes. If the guy will wait a month or two or three, even, without becoming a roaring jerk about not getting any, then he might actually like you. Humans are confusing, and their actions don't always match their statements, even when they don't realize it. I can't tell you how many of my bro's get crazy hung up on a girl as soon as they hit the sack, only to go cool on them as soon as they are 'gettin' some' on a regular basis. This guy doesn't know his own mind/heart, but that isn't uncommon. Be prepared for the possiblity that he just isn't there yet.
Well, some people are truly ';conquer and divide'; people. But, for most people, it is just a matter of energy.
He was heavy into you, and you were keeping him at a distance. Now, the roles have switched. However, it is not the end... You need to simply move some of the energy back!
Try not to make yourself so available to him. Let him work for your attention. If he shows a lack of interest, then give him what he wants by going and doing your own thing. This can even mean going on a date with another guy!
What you do is up to you, but sometimes a date with an attractive guy can show that a lack of interest on his part can lead to a lack of interest on your part.
A date can also be extremely harmless on your part, simply a way of keeping your dating skills up to speed, and for letting him know that you are desired by others.
Men and women are both guilty of relationship complacency when they reach a goal that they set for themselves. The trick is to show them that having sex with you is not the only goal that they have to achieve... =) Let them know that they have other goals to achieve with you!
The easiest way to find yourself a date fast, is to use the below website. As a dating consultant, I use it with all of my clients, I highly recommend it!
I JUST HAD A BOOK PUBLISHED ON DATING. NOT TO SEEM COLD BUT YOU WERE A CONQUEST THAT HE HAD HE CONQUERED. ONCE YOU SLEPT WITH HIM HE ACHIEVED HIS GOAL. MEN LIKE HIM ARE PIGS AND COULD CARE LESS ABOUT WHO YOU ARE OR YOUR BELIEFS AND CHANCES ARE IF YOU CUT HIM OFF FROM SEX FOR A MONTH, HE WOULD NO LONGER BE ANYWHERE NEAR YOU. ONE QUESTION I ASK WOMEN IN MY BOOK IS,,WHAT DO U WEAR ON UR FIRST DATE,,IN OTHER WORDS HOW MUCH DO U SHOW.. MY THEORY IS TO SHOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING,,NO CLEQAVAGE AT ALL. TEST HIS CHARACTER. WOULD U RATHER HAVE HIM ASK U OUT AGAIN FOR WHO U ARE OR FOR YOUR CLEAVAGE....LOSE THIS GUY
Dating advice but not really.?
ok so there is this girl. supper hot but she is my friend... but she is literately perfect. i have known her since first grade. i am in 9th now. i have not seen her in 3 years because i went to privet school. but i just started talking to her a few months ago. we talk about how sweet it would be to hang out but i am worried that if i ask her to come over or to just do anything she will hang up and never speek to me again. please help me.Dating advice but not really.?
whats life with out a chance? i say go for itDating advice but not really.?
just ask her to hang out, not nesicarily come over 2 ur house. ask her to have dinner with you or something. most likely she will still talk to you and not hang up.
be positive, she may like you 2
good luck
I think you should just say ';Hey do you want to go to the movies or hang out sometime? It'd be great to see you again.'; That way it doesn't seem like a date if she isn't comfortable with that, but girls can twist it into a date if we feel the same.
haha!
Don't be nervous if you guys are friends! Just think about catching up for now and the romance part of it will fall into play if that's how you both feel.
Good Luck Love!
Lexii
whats life with out a chance? i say go for itDating advice but not really.?
just ask her to hang out, not nesicarily come over 2 ur house. ask her to have dinner with you or something. most likely she will still talk to you and not hang up.
be positive, she may like you 2
good luck
I think you should just say ';Hey do you want to go to the movies or hang out sometime? It'd be great to see you again.'; That way it doesn't seem like a date if she isn't comfortable with that, but girls can twist it into a date if we feel the same.
haha!
Don't be nervous if you guys are friends! Just think about catching up for now and the romance part of it will fall into play if that's how you both feel.
Good Luck Love!
Lexii
Dating advice...pleaseeee!!?
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and he has lived with me for almost a year...By the way i'm 18 and he is 19
We always do the same things, like just chill at home or go to the movies or the mall....What are some other things we can do?
And also what can we do to ';spice'; things up in the bedroom.(or out of the bedroom) Lol. sorry if thats TMI. (:Dating advice...pleaseeee!!?
go 4 short trips, vaccationDating advice...pleaseeee!!?
Maybe you guys should go on a vacation but somewhere fun like vegas
spend sometime together partying have fun laugh and everything
idk about spicing things up im to young to no yet =]
well u can go for a walk on the beach
or go out to dinner
go to a water park together
stuff like that
good luck ;D
We always do the same things, like just chill at home or go to the movies or the mall....What are some other things we can do?
And also what can we do to ';spice'; things up in the bedroom.(or out of the bedroom) Lol. sorry if thats TMI. (:Dating advice...pleaseeee!!?
go 4 short trips, vaccationDating advice...pleaseeee!!?
Maybe you guys should go on a vacation but somewhere fun like vegas
spend sometime together partying have fun laugh and everything
idk about spicing things up im to young to no yet =]
well u can go for a walk on the beach
or go out to dinner
go to a water park together
stuff like that
good luck ;D
Dating advice anyone??
Okkkay i've been dating this guy for almost three months now and he's said some wierd stuff to me like ';it would be hott if u made out with a chick'; and I found out that he's cut himself before and still does sometimes...i really like him because he has an awesome personality, but are these signs I should break up with him?Dating advice anyone??
ask him wtf is wrong with himDating advice anyone??
I agree with Mo, and would add that the cutting doesn't always show that he has a pathological psych problem. It depends on the motivation or what he is thinking when he cuts himself. Also, there are a few genetically linked disorders (links below for example) where cutting or other self-mutilating activities is one of the symptoms.
Well it's not exactly normal for someone to cut themselves but a guy fanticizing about two girls making out is normal, it's a guy thing. I would becarefull though, if they guy cuts himself then he has some serious emotional and phycological issues. Breake it off before things get to the point of no return and he may consider suicide if you let things get to far.
The girl on girl thing is the typical male fantasy thing. The cutting however is something he should get help for. I would talk to him about that and suggest him seeing a therapist.
he is unstable :( he might dring, smoke, hit you, **** another girl god knows what.
why would some one cut himself unless he is very sick (it happens at ';House'; )))eye makeup
ask him wtf is wrong with himDating advice anyone??
I agree with Mo, and would add that the cutting doesn't always show that he has a pathological psych problem. It depends on the motivation or what he is thinking when he cuts himself. Also, there are a few genetically linked disorders (links below for example) where cutting or other self-mutilating activities is one of the symptoms.
Well it's not exactly normal for someone to cut themselves but a guy fanticizing about two girls making out is normal, it's a guy thing. I would becarefull though, if they guy cuts himself then he has some serious emotional and phycological issues. Breake it off before things get to the point of no return and he may consider suicide if you let things get to far.
The girl on girl thing is the typical male fantasy thing. The cutting however is something he should get help for. I would talk to him about that and suggest him seeing a therapist.
he is unstable :( he might dring, smoke, hit you, **** another girl god knows what.
why would some one cut himself unless he is very sick (it happens at ';House'; )))
Dating advice needed?
have this guy..who flirts with me but he never really made an actual move, I know for a fact that he's an insecure guy.. there was one instance where he told me to call him if I ever wanted to hang out or go to a movie.. and there was another time where he asked me WHO I spent my holidays with, and on top of that he's always questioning me about how come I'm always leaving when he comes and talk to me... so I thought well he told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out..so I made the first move and asked him to hang out.He told me that he would like to but it would have to be in a couple of weeks because he is broke....so I called him yesterday..and told him i was going to starbucks and if he wasn't busy after work, he could join, me he told me that starbucks sounds good, however today wouldn't be too good since he's busy, and that we would have to meet up sometime next week..then I asked him if he wasn't interested would he tell me? He said quote on quote ';that we can meet upDating advice needed?
He's double timing somebody.Dating advice needed?
i think hes just nervous. or doesnt really know how he feels about you.
he has to be married or seening some one. If he like you he would do anything. Yeah even if I was broke I would write you a note or just call you. Or even hang out is free ;-) if you ever need a friend I am here ;-)
hes broke and is afriad to go out with u and u notice he pocket empties
Sounds like a loser. Move on...
I;ll meet you at Starbucks and I will buy you a cup of Joe and we can discuss......
Well, Steph, he may be a very shy guy!!! He wants to hang out, but then again, he may be scared to ask you!!! And that's just how alot of guys are!!! As in the instance with myself!!! I am really shy around women, regardless of how long I have known them!!! Have you tried texting him or e-mailing him? Hinting to him that you are interested in him?? Sometimes messaging like that kind eases a guy up, so that way when you two are together on a date, he's more at ease, not as nervous or shy!!! My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, she lives in TN and I live in OH!! We went to HS together and graduated together, but went our separate ways. When she came up here to OH to meet me for the first time in 17 yrs, I was so shy and nervous, it took me 3 hrs just to look her in the eyes and tell her how much I love her!!! See, not all guys are shy, but I am one of those to proudly say I am!!!! Give him some time, he'll eventually let loose!!!
He's double timing somebody.Dating advice needed?
i think hes just nervous. or doesnt really know how he feels about you.
he has to be married or seening some one. If he like you he would do anything. Yeah even if I was broke I would write you a note or just call you. Or even hang out is free ;-) if you ever need a friend I am here ;-)
hes broke and is afriad to go out with u and u notice he pocket empties
Sounds like a loser. Move on...
I;ll meet you at Starbucks and I will buy you a cup of Joe and we can discuss......
Well, Steph, he may be a very shy guy!!! He wants to hang out, but then again, he may be scared to ask you!!! And that's just how alot of guys are!!! As in the instance with myself!!! I am really shy around women, regardless of how long I have known them!!! Have you tried texting him or e-mailing him? Hinting to him that you are interested in him?? Sometimes messaging like that kind eases a guy up, so that way when you two are together on a date, he's more at ease, not as nervous or shy!!! My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, she lives in TN and I live in OH!! We went to HS together and graduated together, but went our separate ways. When she came up here to OH to meet me for the first time in 17 yrs, I was so shy and nervous, it took me 3 hrs just to look her in the eyes and tell her how much I love her!!! See, not all guys are shy, but I am one of those to proudly say I am!!!! Give him some time, he'll eventually let loose!!!
Dating advice please......?
i'm 14 and all of my friends are going on there first dates and getting their first kiss and i'm not...i'm the tall akward girl who's not fat, but not skinny, not ugly, but not pretty...i'm going into high school and at this rate i probably will still have not have my first kiss until i'm like 35, so please help, maybe some flirting advice....and i also have a huge crush on my friends brother should i tell her or not???Dating advice please......?
I know it might be hard to watch as your friends start dating, but you need to realise that there's no set time for a person to start dating or kissing. Everyone has their own pace and sometimes the right person just hasn't come along yet.
Your first kiss is supposed to be a wonderful and memorable moment, try not to rush it with the first boy who shows the slightest interest. You want this memory to be a good one.
As for your friend's brother, it's been my experience that these things don't work out so well, but if you really like him, then I think you need to find out if he likes you back before you tell anyone.
Please don't worry that you're slower than everyone else, I started dating after all of my friends, some of the meaner girls in class called me a freak or a lesbian, but I ended up meeting the right guy and ended up married before all of my classmates. And more importantly, I'm happy, very happy.
Good luckDating advice please......?
Use your height to your advantage.
Get a couple magazines like Cosmopolitan and notice how the beautiful people are dressing, what they're wearing, what their faces and smiles look like, the gracefulness and posture, makeup and hair and fingernails.
Then practice.
Be stylish. Instead of being ';shy'; be ';reserved,'; and ';modest'; and ';discreet.';
Pick a couple role models and practice being like they are until you find your own natural style. Be classy.
I know it might be hard to watch as your friends start dating, but you need to realise that there's no set time for a person to start dating or kissing. Everyone has their own pace and sometimes the right person just hasn't come along yet.
Your first kiss is supposed to be a wonderful and memorable moment, try not to rush it with the first boy who shows the slightest interest. You want this memory to be a good one.
As for your friend's brother, it's been my experience that these things don't work out so well, but if you really like him, then I think you need to find out if he likes you back before you tell anyone.
Please don't worry that you're slower than everyone else, I started dating after all of my friends, some of the meaner girls in class called me a freak or a lesbian, but I ended up meeting the right guy and ended up married before all of my classmates. And more importantly, I'm happy, very happy.
Good luckDating advice please......?
Use your height to your advantage.
Get a couple magazines like Cosmopolitan and notice how the beautiful people are dressing, what they're wearing, what their faces and smiles look like, the gracefulness and posture, makeup and hair and fingernails.
Then practice.
Be stylish. Instead of being ';shy'; be ';reserved,'; and ';modest'; and ';discreet.';
Pick a couple role models and practice being like they are until you find your own natural style. Be classy.
Dating advice!!?
i am 14 years old and i like this girl and she likes me but we r great friends and i f we went out then we r risking our awesome friendship shuld i take the chance and ask her out or just leave it alone??Dating advice!!?
what will make YOU the most happy. follow the heartDating advice!!?
Leave it alone, don't ruin a friendship, wait til your older to date too! I wish I did....
Go for it and ask her, maybe she really likes you as much as you like her, don't let her go, because if you take to long to ask her maybe she'll think you only like her as a friend and she might start dating someone else and your not going to like that!
dont ruine a friendship after yall go out thn break up yall goin 2 act weird around each othr if u really like her u wont ruine ur friendship with her jus have her as ur best friend and look out for her have her back
what will make YOU the most happy. follow the heartDating advice!!?
Leave it alone, don't ruin a friendship, wait til your older to date too! I wish I did....
Go for it and ask her, maybe she really likes you as much as you like her, don't let her go, because if you take to long to ask her maybe she'll think you only like her as a friend and she might start dating someone else and your not going to like that!
dont ruine a friendship after yall go out thn break up yall goin 2 act weird around each othr if u really like her u wont ruine ur friendship with her jus have her as ur best friend and look out for her have her back
Dating Advice??
I'm a 20 year old male who has very strong feelings for a woman in her mid forties. She's single and looking. But, due to the age difference I'm not sure she'd take me seriously. Should I risk it??Dating Advice??
Well, sure. All experiances are worth courting, at least once. Hesitancy gets you nothing.
A more concerning question is if the two of you start dating. It wouldn't be fair to say that the difference in age between you is as extreme as you and someone 20 years younger than you, but there's something there. Her expectations, goals, and life choices are going to be completely, almost irrevocably different than yours.
Think. When you are her age, she'll be retired. If she wants children, she needs to have them now.
Do you?Dating Advice??
Go for it...Ask her out. Get to know her. Women in their mid 40s are HOT!
You have nothing to lose. At least you will gain experience. Just make sure she is on the same page and try not to hurt her... :)
risk it anyways. it will be hard because she may think its only for a fling. just keep persuing her and she will give you a chance when she realizes that you are serious.
definately. ITs never the end of the world.
If you don't see her often, then sure. Risk it.
But if you see her often, like on a day-to-day basis, I'd say to avoid possible awkwardness.
No. Do not risk it, and mostly due to the fact that you are both in very different stages of your lives.
You will likely be a high-energy novelty to her. Your eagerness for intimacy and drive will likely fulfill her...but she can't even take you out with her bc you're not of legal drinking age...that would put a damper on any date-type activities you would like to partake in (jazz clubs, regular clubs, vegas getaways) things of that nature.
Also, as things get more serious (if they did)- you would probably be expected to fulfil the role of a man in a relationship...that of a provider and you may not be at the same level of expectations since you probably don't have as much life experience as she does. the gaps can cause serious problems.
You have to think long term....where do relationships go? They usually end up in marriage, starting a family, etc.etc. Can you see yourself being with this woman 5, 10, 15 years from now- will you share the same goals in life? Will you feel like you missed out on your ';youth'; by investing your time with her?
BUT- if both of you are just looking for a good time...heck...go at it and have fun with it, but go into it KNOWING and understand that feelings will be hurt and it will actually be more of an emotional drain on both of you...and potentially it will ruin whatever friendship you have along with mutual relationships- and if you work together, it will create a hostile work environment.
Sorry dude- not trying to be negative, but that's just the reality in these sorts of situations.
you will be nothing more than a toy boy to her.
if you just want a bit of fun , then go for it.
here is a link to an article with great dating advice
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article鈥?/a>
Yes. Unless you both have a friendship, or doctor-patient, teacher-student or other special sort of relationship that you might jeopardise with your move. Otherwise, if you feel u've got nothing to lose except your pride, then give it a shot. At least you won't regret not having tried. :)
I think you should. Life's all about taking risks. It's better to take the risk and have a chance of having her than not taking the risk and it being too late. Anyway, if you were made for each other she'll understand your feelings =) Good luck!
totaly. ask her out but be very serious about it. look at ashton and his girl and they worked out just fine. i think....
Well, sure. All experiances are worth courting, at least once. Hesitancy gets you nothing.
A more concerning question is if the two of you start dating. It wouldn't be fair to say that the difference in age between you is as extreme as you and someone 20 years younger than you, but there's something there. Her expectations, goals, and life choices are going to be completely, almost irrevocably different than yours.
Think. When you are her age, she'll be retired. If she wants children, she needs to have them now.
Do you?Dating Advice??
Go for it...Ask her out. Get to know her. Women in their mid 40s are HOT!
You have nothing to lose. At least you will gain experience. Just make sure she is on the same page and try not to hurt her... :)
risk it anyways. it will be hard because she may think its only for a fling. just keep persuing her and she will give you a chance when she realizes that you are serious.
definately. ITs never the end of the world.
If you don't see her often, then sure. Risk it.
But if you see her often, like on a day-to-day basis, I'd say to avoid possible awkwardness.
No. Do not risk it, and mostly due to the fact that you are both in very different stages of your lives.
You will likely be a high-energy novelty to her. Your eagerness for intimacy and drive will likely fulfill her...but she can't even take you out with her bc you're not of legal drinking age...that would put a damper on any date-type activities you would like to partake in (jazz clubs, regular clubs, vegas getaways) things of that nature.
Also, as things get more serious (if they did)- you would probably be expected to fulfil the role of a man in a relationship...that of a provider and you may not be at the same level of expectations since you probably don't have as much life experience as she does. the gaps can cause serious problems.
You have to think long term....where do relationships go? They usually end up in marriage, starting a family, etc.etc. Can you see yourself being with this woman 5, 10, 15 years from now- will you share the same goals in life? Will you feel like you missed out on your ';youth'; by investing your time with her?
BUT- if both of you are just looking for a good time...heck...go at it and have fun with it, but go into it KNOWING and understand that feelings will be hurt and it will actually be more of an emotional drain on both of you...and potentially it will ruin whatever friendship you have along with mutual relationships- and if you work together, it will create a hostile work environment.
Sorry dude- not trying to be negative, but that's just the reality in these sorts of situations.
you will be nothing more than a toy boy to her.
if you just want a bit of fun , then go for it.
here is a link to an article with great dating advice
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article鈥?/a>
Yes. Unless you both have a friendship, or doctor-patient, teacher-student or other special sort of relationship that you might jeopardise with your move. Otherwise, if you feel u've got nothing to lose except your pride, then give it a shot. At least you won't regret not having tried. :)
I think you should. Life's all about taking risks. It's better to take the risk and have a chance of having her than not taking the risk and it being too late. Anyway, if you were made for each other she'll understand your feelings =) Good luck!
totaly. ask her out but be very serious about it. look at ashton and his girl and they worked out just fine. i think....
Dating advice.?
I had a friend who just got married 4 weeks ago. I met this girl who turned out to be my friends cousin who just graduated high school and was leaving for college in a week. We danced and talked for a while and she gave me her #. We hung out together for a little bit that night, went to see a movie a few days before she left, and I just took her to a concert when she came home a few weeks ago. We talk pretty much everyday either by text message and on the phone and we really seem to have a lot in common. There is only one thing....I am 24 years old and she is 18 about to turn 19. She has said she likes me and I have told her I like her as well but she is young and only a Freshman in college. I think there may be a chance in the future to have a realtionship with this girl. Right now though I really don't think she is looking to get involved while she is away at school. Am I reading this girl all wrong or is there something there where this girl could be more than just a friend?Dating advice.?
Stick with being her friend for now. Hang out, go do stuff with a group of people, find out more about her, really get to know her.
See what might develop.......if nothing else, who can't use another good friend in their life?Dating advice.?
Do you think she is worth waiting for? If so, then wait for her
If you're not willing to wait for her, then what is the point of pursuing her?
Stick with being her friend for now. Hang out, go do stuff with a group of people, find out more about her, really get to know her.
See what might develop.......if nothing else, who can't use another good friend in their life?Dating advice.?
Do you think she is worth waiting for? If so, then wait for her
If you're not willing to wait for her, then what is the point of pursuing her?
Dating advice??!!!!?
There's this boy that goes to my church and i like him alot. He's really nice and funny and really cute! But he's 14 and i'm 11. Am i to young to date and is he too old for me?Dating advice??!!!!?
Wait about 10 years and enjoy the rest of your life until then. That is going to be HARD to do I know, but you won't regret it later. The right person is waiting for you, but the timing has to be right. Be patient, and don't base your decision on what all the other girls are doing or are allowed to do. Do what you feel is right. Be yourself and believe in yourself :)
Also, I suggest at your age, that you speak to your parents and/or legal guardian in person about this...NOT someone online. The internet is not a safe place...be careful and stay out of trouble :)Dating advice??!!!!?
I am sure you could meet for a game of babminton or go to the bowling alley without damagind yourselves or anybody else.
Send him a note concealed in your prayerbook inviting him for icecreams.
Yes...You are too young!!! I would just try to be friends with him...Then you can get to know him..Later, you and him can date maybe when your older...eye makeup
Wait about 10 years and enjoy the rest of your life until then. That is going to be HARD to do I know, but you won't regret it later. The right person is waiting for you, but the timing has to be right. Be patient, and don't base your decision on what all the other girls are doing or are allowed to do. Do what you feel is right. Be yourself and believe in yourself :)
Also, I suggest at your age, that you speak to your parents and/or legal guardian in person about this...NOT someone online. The internet is not a safe place...be careful and stay out of trouble :)Dating advice??!!!!?
I am sure you could meet for a game of babminton or go to the bowling alley without damagind yourselves or anybody else.
Send him a note concealed in your prayerbook inviting him for icecreams.
Yes...You are too young!!! I would just try to be friends with him...Then you can get to know him..Later, you and him can date maybe when your older...
Dating advice???????
Alright, so I haven't dated in a few months...
Well, 12 months to be exact.
And I want to get back in the game, and get a new girlfriend.
FYI, And I'm not sure if I remember my pick up lines, etc...
any help would be awesome!
I'll accept anything, even lectures.. :PDating advice???????
Here's the secret....Don't give us pick up lines. We hate them. Just be yourself. You'll be just fine and dating in no time.Dating advice???????
Ah, good for you for not having dated for a year :) Spent some time with the most important person of all, yourself. :)
Some pick up lines are funny, but it ends up being awkward sometimes. Just say hi and ask simple questions or talk about current events and stuff.
Be yourself, don't worry about anything. If she doesn't like you for being yourself, too bad for her.
Try not to change anything about yourself for a girl. Be yourself chill and get a crush and see if you two can get together. Talk to girls and break the ice at a dance or something. If you see a girl alone and so suspicion of a boyfriend go and talk to her!
for starters forget pickup lines. try to talk to every girl you like but talk to her like you would talk to one of your friends, you may end up with the love of your life
pik up lines... well, they make me smile:
u have a beautiful smile,
u look nice today,
hey sexy. lol,
thats all i can think of rite now
but girls really like nice genuine guys. juss make her smile :-D
Be yourself, and if yourself isnt pleasent, change yourself so you are. Thats all.
if u just wanna ';Get back in the game'; its not gonna wrk u gotta b commited
depends on your age and what exactly you are looking for, just a date or something long term?
Be yourself and don't try too hard.
Don't look for a girl let her come to you.
good luck budd
xOxo
Just be confident. Just be it.
Well, 12 months to be exact.
And I want to get back in the game, and get a new girlfriend.
FYI, And I'm not sure if I remember my pick up lines, etc...
any help would be awesome!
I'll accept anything, even lectures.. :PDating advice???????
Here's the secret....Don't give us pick up lines. We hate them. Just be yourself. You'll be just fine and dating in no time.Dating advice???????
Ah, good for you for not having dated for a year :) Spent some time with the most important person of all, yourself. :)
Some pick up lines are funny, but it ends up being awkward sometimes. Just say hi and ask simple questions or talk about current events and stuff.
Be yourself, don't worry about anything. If she doesn't like you for being yourself, too bad for her.
Try not to change anything about yourself for a girl. Be yourself chill and get a crush and see if you two can get together. Talk to girls and break the ice at a dance or something. If you see a girl alone and so suspicion of a boyfriend go and talk to her!
for starters forget pickup lines. try to talk to every girl you like but talk to her like you would talk to one of your friends, you may end up with the love of your life
pik up lines... well, they make me smile:
u have a beautiful smile,
u look nice today,
hey sexy. lol,
thats all i can think of rite now
but girls really like nice genuine guys. juss make her smile :-D
Be yourself, and if yourself isnt pleasent, change yourself so you are. Thats all.
if u just wanna ';Get back in the game'; its not gonna wrk u gotta b commited
depends on your age and what exactly you are looking for, just a date or something long term?
Be yourself and don't try too hard.
Don't look for a girl let her come to you.
good luck budd
xOxo
Just be confident. Just be it.
Dating Advice Polll (Guys and Gurlz)?
High School SweetHeart
or
Hot Young Model
you decide...Dating Advice Polll (Guys and Gurlz)?
most of the bitches out there who say high school sweetheart know that they can not date a real hot young model in their life. Im sure they will cheat on that ';HIGH school sweethear'; at the first moment when they see a hot young model. Just being honestDating Advice Polll (Guys and Gurlz)?
High School SweetHeart
high school sweet heart
[young hot model would prob be gud 4 a li lwhile but den u'd be jealous of eevery other guy she c's ]
High School Sweetheart
(he turned out REEEAAAAL good and the thing is we still friends till this day)
depends, if high skool sweetheart broke up, probly hot model so u can try sumthin new
High School SweetHeart
high school sweet heart, they know you, and still like you.
HIGH SCHOOLSWEET HEART.
handsss down.
High School Sweatheart
high school sweet-heart
high school sweetheart
high school sweet heart. the history makes everything better and worth their wild.
high school sweetheart
High School SweetHeart
High School Sweetheart
or
Hot Young Model
you decide...Dating Advice Polll (Guys and Gurlz)?
most of the bitches out there who say high school sweetheart know that they can not date a real hot young model in their life. Im sure they will cheat on that ';HIGH school sweethear'; at the first moment when they see a hot young model. Just being honestDating Advice Polll (Guys and Gurlz)?
High School SweetHeart
high school sweet heart
[young hot model would prob be gud 4 a li lwhile but den u'd be jealous of eevery other guy she c's ]
High School Sweetheart
(he turned out REEEAAAAL good and the thing is we still friends till this day)
depends, if high skool sweetheart broke up, probly hot model so u can try sumthin new
High School SweetHeart
high school sweet heart, they know you, and still like you.
HIGH SCHOOLSWEET HEART.
handsss down.
High School Sweatheart
high school sweet-heart
high school sweetheart
high school sweet heart. the history makes everything better and worth their wild.
high school sweetheart
High School SweetHeart
High School Sweetheart
This is for my brother....he needs dating advice, like now?
My brothers 17 and hes never had a gf. Hes not a ugly guy but he doesnt really care about his apperence. He has a problem talking to a girl, but after he gets to know them he doesnt have a problem. So I just tell him to take care of his apperence and just be confidentThis is for my brother....he needs dating advice, like now?
I'm kinda like that too. The first step is appearance. Help him out with his hair and style. Also tell him to work out. Once he's confident about the way he looks it will be much easier for him to talk to girls.This is for my brother....he needs dating advice, like now?
yh, u should take him 2 abercrombie, hollister, or american eagle. And if u buy that abercrombie and fitch perfume thing, then girls will be like all over him. and tell him not to be mean, tell him 2 B nice, like super nice.
I'm kinda like that too. The first step is appearance. Help him out with his hair and style. Also tell him to work out. Once he's confident about the way he looks it will be much easier for him to talk to girls.This is for my brother....he needs dating advice, like now?
yh, u should take him 2 abercrombie, hollister, or american eagle. And if u buy that abercrombie and fitch perfume thing, then girls will be like all over him. and tell him not to be mean, tell him 2 B nice, like super nice.
Dating Advice Please!?
Well the guy I like is 37. I am 24. He is the head cook at a restuarant I have been going to for the past seven years. Well recently we started to like each other. He told me he liked me last week and then other night we hung out at the restuarnt when he got off work and we kissed and he said he liked me and I asked him if he would like to go out with me on Sat night for my friends birthday and he said yes. Well he works all day Mon-Fri. From 9am-10:30pm but gets a lunch break at 2:30. So last night I called and asked him if he wanted to have lunch with me tomorrow and I would meet him up there and he said yes. This is the question...Usually for lunch he eats with the other staff and plays cards. They all eat together. ALWAYS. Should I sit with him with the staff anyways or what? Ask him to go to another part of the restuarant? What if he doesnt come over and sit with me and leaves me hanging? I dont want him to think I am being bossy if i ask him to come sit with me.Dating Advice Please!?
first things first you have to ask him to sit in a different part of the restaurant because this could be a new relationship that might evolve from this situation. you could always later park with him and the other staff... but first the two of you needs to find some common ground and you can't do that when he is surrounded by his staff members...GOOD LUCK!!! DropzzDating Advice Please!?
just ask him to come sit somwhere else with you...it's not going to kill him to miss 1 lunch day of cards with friends lol and if he really likes you he wont have a problem with it
Don't worry so much. I suspect when you'll get there it'll be clear what to do. If he's with the rest of the staff walk over to him. If he'd like to have lunch with just you, he'll direct you two to another area. Since he works there, let him take the lead.
Mostly, though, try to relax and have fun. Oh, and don't get anything with red sauce. If you're anything like me, you'll end out with it down the front of your white shirt!!
Well if u r a one night stand girl then go ahead. but i don't think you need more than this from him. but to be honest you are making it official if u go to the restaurant to eat between his people.
first things first you have to ask him to sit in a different part of the restaurant because this could be a new relationship that might evolve from this situation. you could always later park with him and the other staff... but first the two of you needs to find some common ground and you can't do that when he is surrounded by his staff members...GOOD LUCK!!! DropzzDating Advice Please!?
just ask him to come sit somwhere else with you...it's not going to kill him to miss 1 lunch day of cards with friends lol and if he really likes you he wont have a problem with it
Don't worry so much. I suspect when you'll get there it'll be clear what to do. If he's with the rest of the staff walk over to him. If he'd like to have lunch with just you, he'll direct you two to another area. Since he works there, let him take the lead.
Mostly, though, try to relax and have fun. Oh, and don't get anything with red sauce. If you're anything like me, you'll end out with it down the front of your white shirt!!
Well if u r a one night stand girl then go ahead. but i don't think you need more than this from him. but to be honest you are making it official if u go to the restaurant to eat between his people.
Dating advice?
so how should I do to start to date again. I'm open for relationship but how should I do it, I was tring for months can't find anyone that I like. any advice?/ those who are successfullDating advice?
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I know how you feel not having a significant other in your life鈥?Don鈥檛 try so hard and being desperate. The more you look, the more it will be harder to find someone. STOP LOOKING and let love come to you. Focus on enriching your life and you can鈥檛 really substitute your loneliness for your life partner meaning don鈥檛 wait for them to take on that job to make your life complete! It鈥檚 impossible鈥?Think of this logically, if marriage is calling for both of us (yes, I鈥檓 single) IT WILL HAPPEN鈥?Have a complete faith in yourself and just go on about your life鈥?I hope this will help you.
Dating advice..(kind of)?
alright well me and my girlfriend have been going out for like a month and 3 days and i was just wondering what some things are to do like what is there to do on a date like fun things to do or like just stuff anything dating related sorry for the unclear question but you kind of know what i mean im sure, just stuff. thanks allDating advice..(kind of)?
Get some friends and go camping, you two can spend time together, and your with friends! Trust me, its great!Dating advice..(kind of)?
Go out to the theme park that is something fun to do with your girl, especially when you go on a fast roller coaster she can hang on to youeye makeup
Get some friends and go camping, you two can spend time together, and your with friends! Trust me, its great!Dating advice..(kind of)?
Go out to the theme park that is something fun to do with your girl, especially when you go on a fast roller coaster she can hang on to you
Need a little Dating advice?
Ok I'll keep it short.
Met a girl last weekend. Got her number. Called her on wednsday to see if she wanted to do something this weekend, no answer. Left a message short and sweet nothing weird or awkward. Hasn't called back. My buddy calls me jsut now to invite me to a party. Its her party at her house. He is alowed to invite people in fact she told him to. Should I go?Need a little Dating advice?
hell yeah girl love the fact that mistery can happen..and think about it if u get with her ( in anyway-chill date w/e)it will be sweet. but i would not even question this....cuz personally i want to party as much as i can while i can...and u never know u might meet some one else....just go and have fun..PEACE
Met a girl last weekend. Got her number. Called her on wednsday to see if she wanted to do something this weekend, no answer. Left a message short and sweet nothing weird or awkward. Hasn't called back. My buddy calls me jsut now to invite me to a party. Its her party at her house. He is alowed to invite people in fact she told him to. Should I go?Need a little Dating advice?
hell yeah girl love the fact that mistery can happen..and think about it if u get with her ( in anyway-chill date w/e)it will be sweet. but i would not even question this....cuz personally i want to party as much as i can while i can...and u never know u might meet some one else....just go and have fun..PEACE
I need some dating advice.?
Last year in my old school I asked this girl out. My first time. Anyway the girl hated me and started a rumor about me, while publicly rejecting me. How can I prevent this from happening again?I need some dating advice.?
That was really mean of her. Don't let her cruel actions cause you to lose confidence in yourself. Believe me, there aren't many girls that would be that heartless so move on and just consider it a bad experience that will probably never ever happen again. Lots of luck!
That was really mean of her. Don't let her cruel actions cause you to lose confidence in yourself. Believe me, there aren't many girls that would be that heartless so move on and just consider it a bad experience that will probably never ever happen again. Lots of luck!
I need some dating advice!?
It's been a whole year since i've had a boyfriend. we dated for a year and i thought we'd be together forever. i really am finally over him! but i'm not really looking for anyone because i'm afraid of getting hurt again. how do i put myself out there again without getting hurt?
any advice?I need some dating advice!?
There is no guarantee that you wont get hurt. Just think how sad and lonely life would be if you didn't take a chance, just get out there date have fun don't be in a big hurry to find someone and some day when your not looking it will happen. There's someone out there for everyone I truly believe that.I need some dating advice!?
Just have fun don't get too attached.
any advice?I need some dating advice!?
There is no guarantee that you wont get hurt. Just think how sad and lonely life would be if you didn't take a chance, just get out there date have fun don't be in a big hurry to find someone and some day when your not looking it will happen. There's someone out there for everyone I truly believe that.I need some dating advice!?
Just have fun don't get too attached.
I need some dating advice!! PLEASE!?
I dated this one guy, and we broke up cuz he was cheating on me. And then his cousin asked me out, like 2 days after our 'break up'. And then i said yes, and he is a player and a cheater, and with that in mind all weekend. He asked me on friday so we didnt go no where yet. And then the 1 guys sister told me it was over between me and guy 2, it was sunday. But i still like him...What 2 do, what 2 do?!?!?!I need some dating advice!! PLEASE!?
I'm not a hater, man, it's so not like that. But as a former hustla, and playa myself, I can tell the shitty dudes from the ones that will actually treat you with some respect...these dudes just want to get up in them guts...your guts. If your down with that, then do your thing, but if you're looking for something more, tell these bustahs to move on cause they comin on like a broken arm, and you aren't down with their wicked ways. Besides these two fools are gonna wind up squabbin over all of this and then, they will wind up ganging on you, cause blood is thicker than water, ya dig? SO, this has got bad written all over it. Dey playin you like a deck o cards yo! Get wit it, and tell deez niggaz to go on wit themselves, or else you gonna get your feelings hurt, and atleast one of em is gonna get in dem guts, and dey gonna spread dat **** all over town, and ruin your rep. deez niggaz don't give a **** about you, and this is coming from a former hustla, ya dig? Avoid deez fools.I need some dating advice!! PLEASE!?
first of all go to a doctor and get ur brain checked to make sure u have a iq in the positives then, after that go to the other guy that u don't like anymore or whatever and tell him u like him. He will tell the other guy and the guy will get jealous and beg u to him back. He will then go over to the other guy who u told u liked and shoot him with his shotgun. He will then go to u and beat u for a bit for being disobedient but just pass that off by saying u were having ur period and then u'll live happily ever after.
honey i see this kinda stuff happen all the time!
those two boys are just playing around with you
and neither one of them likes you, but that's a
good thing because they are both wanna be player
jerks who get pleasure out of stealing eachothers
girlfriends so w/e,. you don't really want them and
you're gonna find some little cutie at your school
and fall in LiKe with him! so don't stress these
two little boys, get on real guy status=]
ok not to be mean. but damn girl you got a lot going on. i cant really help cuz i didnt follow that story at all...
but if it helps try
www.mylifeisaverage.com
www.fmylife.com
they make me laugh
Sounds like both those guys are not good enough for you since you don't want to date cheaters. Just try to forget about them and find a good guy who won't cheat.
forget about him and his whole family. cheating and heartbreak is in thier genes. You need 2 get over him.
Fix your face
Usually that's the culprit.
don't do anything...things will fall into place eventually...let time do the work...smiles...
Forget about them wait until you find da right guy
just forget about them. because their is going to be a fight.
I say find a new group of people..
stay single for a bit woman!
stay single for awhile
you might like him, but think to yourself would it REALLY work out. think about it..k?
i fink u shud boff hav a mega orgy!!!!!111!!1!!!!1
Let's see if I understood you correctly. You dated this guy, and he cheated on you. Then his cousin, asked you out, shortly after you ';broke up'; with your guy... AND guy #2 is ALSO a CHEATER... but you like him. First, I don't think you should be with either of these guys, since you know you'll be hurt, and already they can't be trusted.
I think you need to steer clear of them, and of men right now, for you are vulnerable. Take time for yourself, and get to know you. This also will give yourself time to heal, hang out with friends, and not start a pattern of going out with guys that cheat. You'll respect yourself more, and realize that you deserve better.
Also, it's not a good idea to date guys that are best friends, OR related to each other. You'll be the topic of their conversations, and they'll gossip about you, and make you look like a fool.
Take care of you... be kind to yourself... respect yourself.. and when the time is right for you to date again, you'll find that men will respect you more, and want to be with you.... and remember, once a cheater, they'll always cheat. I hope this helped you out. and you deserve to be with someone who will treat you kind. and NOT play games.. Run away from these guys. Take care,
I'm not a hater, man, it's so not like that. But as a former hustla, and playa myself, I can tell the shitty dudes from the ones that will actually treat you with some respect...these dudes just want to get up in them guts...your guts. If your down with that, then do your thing, but if you're looking for something more, tell these bustahs to move on cause they comin on like a broken arm, and you aren't down with their wicked ways. Besides these two fools are gonna wind up squabbin over all of this and then, they will wind up ganging on you, cause blood is thicker than water, ya dig? SO, this has got bad written all over it. Dey playin you like a deck o cards yo! Get wit it, and tell deez niggaz to go on wit themselves, or else you gonna get your feelings hurt, and atleast one of em is gonna get in dem guts, and dey gonna spread dat **** all over town, and ruin your rep. deez niggaz don't give a **** about you, and this is coming from a former hustla, ya dig? Avoid deez fools.I need some dating advice!! PLEASE!?
first of all go to a doctor and get ur brain checked to make sure u have a iq in the positives then, after that go to the other guy that u don't like anymore or whatever and tell him u like him. He will tell the other guy and the guy will get jealous and beg u to him back. He will then go over to the other guy who u told u liked and shoot him with his shotgun. He will then go to u and beat u for a bit for being disobedient but just pass that off by saying u were having ur period and then u'll live happily ever after.
honey i see this kinda stuff happen all the time!
those two boys are just playing around with you
and neither one of them likes you, but that's a
good thing because they are both wanna be player
jerks who get pleasure out of stealing eachothers
girlfriends so w/e,. you don't really want them and
you're gonna find some little cutie at your school
and fall in LiKe with him! so don't stress these
two little boys, get on real guy status=]
ok not to be mean. but damn girl you got a lot going on. i cant really help cuz i didnt follow that story at all...
but if it helps try
www.mylifeisaverage.com
www.fmylife.com
they make me laugh
Sounds like both those guys are not good enough for you since you don't want to date cheaters. Just try to forget about them and find a good guy who won't cheat.
forget about him and his whole family. cheating and heartbreak is in thier genes. You need 2 get over him.
Fix your face
Usually that's the culprit.
don't do anything...things will fall into place eventually...let time do the work...smiles...
Forget about them wait until you find da right guy
just forget about them. because their is going to be a fight.
I say find a new group of people..
stay single for a bit woman!
stay single for awhile
you might like him, but think to yourself would it REALLY work out. think about it..k?
i fink u shud boff hav a mega orgy!!!!!111!!1!!!!1
Let's see if I understood you correctly. You dated this guy, and he cheated on you. Then his cousin, asked you out, shortly after you ';broke up'; with your guy... AND guy #2 is ALSO a CHEATER... but you like him. First, I don't think you should be with either of these guys, since you know you'll be hurt, and already they can't be trusted.
I think you need to steer clear of them, and of men right now, for you are vulnerable. Take time for yourself, and get to know you. This also will give yourself time to heal, hang out with friends, and not start a pattern of going out with guys that cheat. You'll respect yourself more, and realize that you deserve better.
Also, it's not a good idea to date guys that are best friends, OR related to each other. You'll be the topic of their conversations, and they'll gossip about you, and make you look like a fool.
Take care of you... be kind to yourself... respect yourself.. and when the time is right for you to date again, you'll find that men will respect you more, and want to be with you.... and remember, once a cheater, they'll always cheat. I hope this helped you out. and you deserve to be with someone who will treat you kind. and NOT play games.. Run away from these guys. Take care,
Help!!! I need dating advice?
So I've been taking tennis lessons for the past couple of weeks and theirs this really hot guy that also takes lessons with me. He's got piercing brown eyes, gorgeous brown hair, a great smile and a dreamy Italian accent. I keep on fantasizing about him even when I'm in the mddle of a big game. This is making things really akward and he's also 21 years old. (I'm only 19!) Should I ask him out and if so, what could I do to break the ice? You're answers are apreciated!Help!!! I need dating advice?
Why don't you try to flirt, and tell your friends to tell him that you like him? That way if he doesn't like you, you can just tell him ur friends were lying and trying to embarass u=]
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnVRfZKi19drlPz1qmlb.ODsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080120122619AArQOT4Help!!! I need dating advice?
Tennis instructors are used to doing their students so it would be no big deal if you asked him out, he is used to it. But don't put that in your mouth you don't know where it has been.
She said he takes lessons WITH her you dim wit. He's not her instructor. What the hell are you trying to do scare her away from this guy? Sounds to me like you are jealous of good looking Italians *wink*
Angel, try to hint that you have no plans after prctice. Invite him along with you for some coffee or lunch... or if you are daring a shower and then lunch (but thats if you just want to get your rocks off)
I'm sure he'll be more than happy to get to know you over a Chai Latte, or just ask for his number... or yet still, give him yours.
Why don't you try to flirt, and tell your friends to tell him that you like him? That way if he doesn't like you, you can just tell him ur friends were lying and trying to embarass u=]
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnVRfZKi19drlPz1qmlb.ODsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080120122619AArQOT4Help!!! I need dating advice?
Tennis instructors are used to doing their students so it would be no big deal if you asked him out, he is used to it. But don't put that in your mouth you don't know where it has been.
She said he takes lessons WITH her you dim wit. He's not her instructor. What the hell are you trying to do scare her away from this guy? Sounds to me like you are jealous of good looking Italians *wink*
Angel, try to hint that you have no plans after prctice. Invite him along with you for some coffee or lunch... or if you are daring a shower and then lunch (but thats if you just want to get your rocks off)
I'm sure he'll be more than happy to get to know you over a Chai Latte, or just ask for his number... or yet still, give him yours.
Freshman in college...dating advice?
i am 19 and just starting college..been on campus three days.... and classes start tomorrow... the college is three hours from home where the guy that i love lives.... not boyfriend... but best friend.... also i have only been in one relationship my entire life and it only lasted 3 weeks.... not the same guy.... i just want to know when it would be ok to start looking for someone to date or whatnot in my situation.. any advice?Freshman in college...dating advice?
Any time would be okay to start looking for someone.eye makeup
Any time would be okay to start looking for someone.
Recently single need dating advice....?
How do you tell guys in a nice way that you don't want to date them? I recently became single and now I am getting asked out all the time, like these guys were just waiting for this oppurtunity. I've never had to turn a guy down and am not sure what to tell them when they ask me to hang out or go on a date. Advice..please.Recently single need dating advice....?
Tell them, ';Hey MORON I just got out of a crappy relationship, what make you think I want to get into another one?'; Word will get around, and the men will stop hitting on you. When you are ready to date, talk to a few men around you, and look out!!!!
Darlin, I hope you do well. I hope you find your inner peace.Recently single need dating advice....?
I think you should say yes.................to all of them!
';I am not interested.';
ALWAYS BE HONEST BUT AT THE SAME TIME U DONT WANT TO HURT ANYBODY FEELINGS
Just say the truth, that (his name) is a great guy, but you really don't want to date him.
hanging out and going on a date are completely different things - make it clear that you are friends and if they can't handle it, they were never a friend to begin with - you shouldn't have to dread putting the brakes on someone, be straight up and let them know where they stand with you - it's not cold, it's honest
Tell them you recently came out of a relationship and are not ready to start dating yet.
Just be truthful - explain to them that you are not ready to go out yet and expand on the reasons why. They'll understand and probably like you for your honesty.
You win more bee's with honey.
tell them can we just be friends
Tell them, ';Hey MORON I just got out of a crappy relationship, what make you think I want to get into another one?'; Word will get around, and the men will stop hitting on you. When you are ready to date, talk to a few men around you, and look out!!!!
Darlin, I hope you do well. I hope you find your inner peace.Recently single need dating advice....?
I think you should say yes.................to all of them!
';I am not interested.';
ALWAYS BE HONEST BUT AT THE SAME TIME U DONT WANT TO HURT ANYBODY FEELINGS
Just say the truth, that (his name) is a great guy, but you really don't want to date him.
hanging out and going on a date are completely different things - make it clear that you are friends and if they can't handle it, they were never a friend to begin with - you shouldn't have to dread putting the brakes on someone, be straight up and let them know where they stand with you - it's not cold, it's honest
Tell them you recently came out of a relationship and are not ready to start dating yet.
Just be truthful - explain to them that you are not ready to go out yet and expand on the reasons why. They'll understand and probably like you for your honesty.
You win more bee's with honey.
tell them can we just be friends
I need serious dating advice....preferably from the ladies....?
Alright, I'm in high school, and I really like my female friend. I'm not sure whether she likes me or not. Sometimes, it seems like she does, but other times, it doesn't. But anyway, I've learned that her parents don't let her go out much, and only when they really know the person. I've met her parents, but don't really know them, so I don't know if it's just an excuse or not. But anyway....I've decided to try other girls. I think I've accepted the fact that she might not like me as anything more than a friend. However, even though I might look for other girls, I really like this girl a lot, and I'm gonna continue to be her friend. I'm not sure if she knows I like her thought. No, I'm not just gonna tell her lol. What are some things I can do in the meantime to SUBTLY let her know I like her? Like, what can we talk about, what can I ask her, what can I do?? lol.I need serious dating advice....preferably from the ladies....?
Say how you wish all girls were like her, compare her to someon you went out with, saying how much better she is, and most importantly compliment, she'll get the hint. But if she doesn't, try to look into her eyes, only do this when your alone, and in a secluded place, so noone will interupt.I need serious dating advice....preferably from the ladies....?
do you trust her to not harm your heart? then if you do...give it to her with out holding anything back...and dont expect her to love you...ever. true love is unconditional and doesnt look for return. then you cant be hurt when she doesnt love you like she should and your greatest joy is her slightest smile, wether you caused it or not. the biggest problem with the relationships today is that people go into them expecting to get SOMETHING out of it. this one expects the other to love them as much as they love while that one expects the same amount of respect.......and when the other cant or wont satisfy the expectations...they become resentful and want to end the relationship....if the love was real, from the heart and not based on sex and the way the body turns you on, then there should be no other expectation but how happy can you make your partner, how can you please them. you will find the more you bring happiness to the one you love with out expecting even a thank you, the more joy it is that grows in yourself. a selfless act always benefits those that do the act as well as those that the act is done for whereas a selfish act only hurts all involved.
Say how you wish all girls were like her, compare her to someon you went out with, saying how much better she is, and most importantly compliment, she'll get the hint. But if she doesn't, try to look into her eyes, only do this when your alone, and in a secluded place, so noone will interupt.I need serious dating advice....preferably from the ladies....?
do you trust her to not harm your heart? then if you do...give it to her with out holding anything back...and dont expect her to love you...ever. true love is unconditional and doesnt look for return. then you cant be hurt when she doesnt love you like she should and your greatest joy is her slightest smile, wether you caused it or not. the biggest problem with the relationships today is that people go into them expecting to get SOMETHING out of it. this one expects the other to love them as much as they love while that one expects the same amount of respect.......and when the other cant or wont satisfy the expectations...they become resentful and want to end the relationship....if the love was real, from the heart and not based on sex and the way the body turns you on, then there should be no other expectation but how happy can you make your partner, how can you please them. you will find the more you bring happiness to the one you love with out expecting even a thank you, the more joy it is that grows in yourself. a selfless act always benefits those that do the act as well as those that the act is done for whereas a selfish act only hurts all involved.
People I Need Dating Advice!?
I want to ask guys out, but i don't know how to.
I also want to know how to flirt back with someone who is flirting with you.
Thanks!People I Need Dating Advice!?
No matter who you are, male or female, if you want to ask someone out on a date, you just ask. It helps if you already know what common interests you have so you can be ready with an idea to present. Flirting is just having fun with someone...like teasing or making a compliment with a big smile.People I Need Dating Advice!?
i dont think boys like it when girls ask them out.
but you could let him know you are interested in him by talking to him and showing you are eager to know about him.
and when it comes to flirting back, my favourite moves are eye contact, then interrupting it and doing it again after a while, giving hiom a smile. that seems to work for me.
I also want to know how to flirt back with someone who is flirting with you.
Thanks!People I Need Dating Advice!?
No matter who you are, male or female, if you want to ask someone out on a date, you just ask. It helps if you already know what common interests you have so you can be ready with an idea to present. Flirting is just having fun with someone...like teasing or making a compliment with a big smile.People I Need Dating Advice!?
i dont think boys like it when girls ask them out.
but you could let him know you are interested in him by talking to him and showing you are eager to know about him.
and when it comes to flirting back, my favourite moves are eye contact, then interrupting it and doing it again after a while, giving hiom a smile. that seems to work for me.
Isn't it a huge mistake for teens to get dating advice from P&S?
Join the MARINESIsn't it a huge mistake for teens to get dating advice from P%26amp;S?
Yes, it is.Isn't it a huge mistake for teens to get dating advice from P%26amp;S?
You would have thought so, but somehow I think they'll never learn!
If it's dating advice they want, they're probably better off in Singles %26amp; Dating than P%26amp;S.
Teens?
Thats a sore subject with me. Of course I've lived with 4 so far
Yes! Then again, I find P%26amp;S people to be more sane than S%26amp;D people...
At least here the advice is better then in S%26amp;D.
By the way, did anyone think that after devastating S%26amp;D last night they'll all come here?
Nightmare!
P%26amp;S%26amp;S%26amp;D!
lol
i would say so, yes
Yes.
But I agree with many of you that it is better than S%26amp;D. If you ask for dating advice there, the answers you'll likely get would be ';Why? Are you pregnant?'; or ';Be careful, you might be pregnant.';
You tell them dude, You are so right, have a great day =]
dun think so..where else can u get tips and advices f.o.c. from real ppls?some of it reallt useful and helpful too,ya know?plus,if we ask our frends we mught gt like 2-3 answrs,but e can get like 10-15 answers in minutes..
Probably, but not their first mistake made.
1) they can't articulate (or spell, or use punctuate)
2) They often feel they should be in relationships they shouldn't have the emotional maturity for for another 5 yeas (and it's a running scale)
3) They are doing things that they can't discuss with their parents. (if you are 23 and ask your mom about sex, you will get a TOTALLY different answer than if you are 12 and ask the same question.
4) they mistake attraction with love.
5) they think sex is the path to being loved
So, coming to people at P%26amp;S could be harmful if someone wants to do harm or is immature, or has some developmental issues. (or heck, is just plain dumb)
Yes, they might get pregnant!
its a huge mistake for anybody any age to get any advise from anyone on p@s but yet thats what i love about us
Yes, I try to stay away from those. They don't want my opinion.
If they are taking this advice seriously then yes it is a mistake...
If they take the advice from morons and jackasses,then yes.If they're taking advice from other teens or people who have been in similar situations,and really want to help,then no.But I'd fully expect parents to load their kids up with advice on dating.
very very huge
What and have them learn it on the streets
And they should get advice from S%26amp;D?
Yes, it is.Isn't it a huge mistake for teens to get dating advice from P%26amp;S?
You would have thought so, but somehow I think they'll never learn!
If it's dating advice they want, they're probably better off in Singles %26amp; Dating than P%26amp;S.
Teens?
Thats a sore subject with me. Of course I've lived with 4 so far
Yes! Then again, I find P%26amp;S people to be more sane than S%26amp;D people...
At least here the advice is better then in S%26amp;D.
By the way, did anyone think that after devastating S%26amp;D last night they'll all come here?
Nightmare!
P%26amp;S%26amp;S%26amp;D!
lol
i would say so, yes
Yes.
But I agree with many of you that it is better than S%26amp;D. If you ask for dating advice there, the answers you'll likely get would be ';Why? Are you pregnant?'; or ';Be careful, you might be pregnant.';
You tell them dude, You are so right, have a great day =]
dun think so..where else can u get tips and advices f.o.c. from real ppls?some of it reallt useful and helpful too,ya know?plus,if we ask our frends we mught gt like 2-3 answrs,but e can get like 10-15 answers in minutes..
Probably, but not their first mistake made.
1) they can't articulate (or spell, or use punctuate)
2) They often feel they should be in relationships they shouldn't have the emotional maturity for for another 5 yeas (and it's a running scale)
3) They are doing things that they can't discuss with their parents. (if you are 23 and ask your mom about sex, you will get a TOTALLY different answer than if you are 12 and ask the same question.
4) they mistake attraction with love.
5) they think sex is the path to being loved
So, coming to people at P%26amp;S could be harmful if someone wants to do harm or is immature, or has some developmental issues. (or heck, is just plain dumb)
Yes, they might get pregnant!
its a huge mistake for anybody any age to get any advise from anyone on p@s but yet thats what i love about us
Yes, I try to stay away from those. They don't want my opinion.
If they are taking this advice seriously then yes it is a mistake...
If they take the advice from morons and jackasses,then yes.If they're taking advice from other teens or people who have been in similar situations,and really want to help,then no.But I'd fully expect parents to load their kids up with advice on dating.
very very huge
What and have them learn it on the streets
And they should get advice from S%26amp;D?
I need some dating advice!!?
i'm 18 years old and gay and last week i hooked up with this guy i've been talking to all summer. I know we really like each other but we both know it's gonna go no where cause we are going to different colleges in the fall. What should i do??I need some dating advice!!?
The way i see it is that you have two options here.....
1) Still see each other and hook up and have fun together this summmer...kinda as a fling. and either forget about it at the end of summer or keep the fire burning through the school year and see each other whenever you can,
OR
2) Cut it off right now and maybe find a more compatible relationship
=/ I hope everything works out for you and him! =)
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>I need some dating advice!!?
How can you be so sure that going to different colleges is enoughto come between you two? The point is this...If you really care for him, and he really cares for you, don't you think it would be worth trying to make it work before you just write the relationship off as being over before it starts? Take a chance whats the worse thing that could happen, you guys go your seperate ways, the best thing...you have a long meaningful relationship filled with love and respect...No one can determine the outcome of a relationship not even couples that live together can determine if it will last or not...Take a chance... Love is a wonderful thing!!!!
That might make things difficult. But initially, me and my boyfriend were going to different colleges. IT didnt hurt us at all. We go to the same university now though, but we are both in totally different majors.
If you can trust him and he can trust you, I dont see why it cant work out :P
Awww! thats soooooo cute!!!!!!! i love gay people. but like i think you should make the best of it while you can. and like just have fun. hope this helps. Good luck!
stop calling hotlines!
Enjoy it while you can %26amp; they wait %26amp; see what happens.
Leave him alone! I mean duh! You know that! If it's not going to go anywhere stop using him.
have fun
isdkk
Just keep in reguluar contact. Call, IM, and meet up every week or fortnight or sumthing
The way i see it is that you have two options here.....
1) Still see each other and hook up and have fun together this summmer...kinda as a fling. and either forget about it at the end of summer or keep the fire burning through the school year and see each other whenever you can,
OR
2) Cut it off right now and maybe find a more compatible relationship
=/ I hope everything works out for you and him! =)
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>I need some dating advice!!?
How can you be so sure that going to different colleges is enoughto come between you two? The point is this...If you really care for him, and he really cares for you, don't you think it would be worth trying to make it work before you just write the relationship off as being over before it starts? Take a chance whats the worse thing that could happen, you guys go your seperate ways, the best thing...you have a long meaningful relationship filled with love and respect...No one can determine the outcome of a relationship not even couples that live together can determine if it will last or not...Take a chance... Love is a wonderful thing!!!!
That might make things difficult. But initially, me and my boyfriend were going to different colleges. IT didnt hurt us at all. We go to the same university now though, but we are both in totally different majors.
If you can trust him and he can trust you, I dont see why it cant work out :P
Awww! thats soooooo cute!!!!!!! i love gay people. but like i think you should make the best of it while you can. and like just have fun. hope this helps. Good luck!
stop calling hotlines!
Enjoy it while you can %26amp; they wait %26amp; see what happens.
Leave him alone! I mean duh! You know that! If it's not going to go anywhere stop using him.
have fun
isdkk
Just keep in reguluar contact. Call, IM, and meet up every week or fortnight or sumthing
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