Dating Advice??

I'm a 20 year old male who has very strong feelings for a woman in her mid forties. She's single and looking. But, due to the age difference I'm not sure she'd take me seriously. Should I risk it??Dating Advice??
Well, sure. All experiances are worth courting, at least once. Hesitancy gets you nothing.





A more concerning question is if the two of you start dating. It wouldn't be fair to say that the difference in age between you is as extreme as you and someone 20 years younger than you, but there's something there. Her expectations, goals, and life choices are going to be completely, almost irrevocably different than yours.





Think. When you are her age, she'll be retired. If she wants children, she needs to have them now.





Do you?Dating Advice??
Go for it...Ask her out. Get to know her. Women in their mid 40s are HOT!


You have nothing to lose. At least you will gain experience. Just make sure she is on the same page and try not to hurt her... :)
risk it anyways. it will be hard because she may think its only for a fling. just keep persuing her and she will give you a chance when she realizes that you are serious.
definately. ITs never the end of the world.
If you don't see her often, then sure. Risk it.


But if you see her often, like on a day-to-day basis, I'd say to avoid possible awkwardness.
No. Do not risk it, and mostly due to the fact that you are both in very different stages of your lives.


You will likely be a high-energy novelty to her. Your eagerness for intimacy and drive will likely fulfill her...but she can't even take you out with her bc you're not of legal drinking age...that would put a damper on any date-type activities you would like to partake in (jazz clubs, regular clubs, vegas getaways) things of that nature.


Also, as things get more serious (if they did)- you would probably be expected to fulfil the role of a man in a relationship...that of a provider and you may not be at the same level of expectations since you probably don't have as much life experience as she does. the gaps can cause serious problems.





You have to think long term....where do relationships go? They usually end up in marriage, starting a family, etc.etc. Can you see yourself being with this woman 5, 10, 15 years from now- will you share the same goals in life? Will you feel like you missed out on your ';youth'; by investing your time with her?





BUT- if both of you are just looking for a good time...heck...go at it and have fun with it, but go into it KNOWING and understand that feelings will be hurt and it will actually be more of an emotional drain on both of you...and potentially it will ruin whatever friendship you have along with mutual relationships- and if you work together, it will create a hostile work environment.





Sorry dude- not trying to be negative, but that's just the reality in these sorts of situations.
you will be nothing more than a toy boy to her.





if you just want a bit of fun , then go for it.
here is a link to an article with great dating advice





http://www.associatedcontent.com/article鈥?/a>
Yes. Unless you both have a friendship, or doctor-patient, teacher-student or other special sort of relationship that you might jeopardise with your move. Otherwise, if you feel u've got nothing to lose except your pride, then give it a shot. At least you won't regret not having tried. :)
I think you should. Life's all about taking risks. It's better to take the risk and have a chance of having her than not taking the risk and it being too late. Anyway, if you were made for each other she'll understand your feelings =) Good luck!
totaly. ask her out but be very serious about it. look at ashton and his girl and they worked out just fine. i think....